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Thank you very much for the info Kevin! I’m done with NC (45-50 days) so I will check Relationship Rewind out now.
Are you going to tell your story face to face or with a text message/call? Maybe if she let you, you can do your story face to face so that she can see your expressions and you hers. But hey, I don’t know if it’s the right thing. I’m not an expert, lol. I’m also a dumpee..
Okay..
I reacted to his message with “Okay, I got your point” and then he said “Can you find yourself in what I said? I mean, you know my personality, I’m social and nice to people, I don’t want you to think that I’m acting with a ‘he wants me back’ behaviour or something. I don’t want to give you false hope and that’s why I’m this open with you”.
I said “a bit”, then he asked “no hard feelings?”. I replied with “why?”. Then he said “just asking”.
Lol, this guy is weird and gives me a real headache. I didn’t replied yet. But he wouldn’t ask that question out of nowhere, would he?
She is also confused I think. With NC you give her the time and space to think about everything and she’ll not stay in the negativity she got from you because you’re not in touch for a while. And it’s also good for you to think about what you want and IF you two ever get back together what you should change in your relationship (or you will break-up again..). If she really loves you (and isn’t such a stubborn and scared like my ex) she will contact you after some time.
I don’t know if you should contact her after you feel confident, accepted that there’s a minor chance to get back together but that you can live with it and got your emotions under control. I did.. but I don’t know if I should recommend it, lol, because I’m confused now of his hot-cold behaviour.
Hi Rihanna,
Thank you for replying to my post.
Well, I confronted my parents with it after the break-up, because they kept asking me why I was so depressed. After a long discussion they said that they couldn’t stop me from what I want, even if they don’t like it that way. It was too late, but I told my ex what they said (a month ago) and he was happy about it, but he kept the decision he made (after he thought about it again for almost 2 weeks..). He said that the feelings were also fading and such. After that moment, we chose to not conctact each other for a while, it was better for both of us.
But now I have to do NC again even if I already went through it? Will it actually help me, because wouldn’t it be weird for him that I become silent again out of nowhere (and without responding to his text)?
I agree with Dara. Any emotions, even anger and hatred, show that she still cares. Try NC and maybe she will miss you after some weeks. My ex said that he wanted to contact me and that he was thinking about me almost every day and that he was worried..
Oh, and he said that the reason behind sending flowers was that he wanted to let me know that he’s still thinking of me. I’m 21 and he is almost 26. The reason of the break-up is that we’re having different religions (family issues, not ours) and the distance between the cities, he wanted to see me more often. Our relationship was secret for my parents, because it would cause trouble and more.
