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wait 5 more days, coz she probably start to miss u after 3 weeks of NC,
u can say something funny to her or just ask her how are you doing recently, but Kevin in the article said “I went to XX ,XX remind me of you.”
you know her, avoid the past and try to make her out for a coffee if she reply you.
good luck !keep us updated !hey it’s normal to hang out with colleges or friends,
if your colleges invite you to party, of course you WILL go too!
and attend any social activity means nothing , I went to party but I still miss my ex, try to understand things by other’s side, good for you and you can do it 😀
ps: maybe next time show her smile or something not anger…you know young girls are negative 🙂
hey it’s ok, just from this moment you can focus on yourself ! and your oldest WILL tell him that !
why your oldest tell your everything to her dad ? he let her do it ?
and the party is only the party, not a date, try to search more job then you can go to a party or so !hey he still worried about u !
if he didn’t, he won’t ask and he wouldn’t look up the window !
haha you did really well !(like we said you and him still have base)
well I think if you cried before your oldest, she would tell her dad,
he didn’t say “we won’t get back together” this time, right? instead of caring about you 😀hey
” he is online and not replying to me ” this is really ok and means nothing to do with “care, love, or any romantic feelings ”
this is just your mind which is playing game with yourself.
such as if your parents were on line and they don’t reply you, you won’t feel uncomfortable !
this is kind of trust issues.
hope you could understand yourself and understand others. 😀
you can do it !hope I could help you 🙂
keep us updated!I recommend 2, coz the first one remind the history, the third one is showing you are talking about something specialized for her..
just advice 😀hey Nick
you are very mature and you definitely deserve her!
but she seems like acted too cold…
I am immature and probably I will send you a “stop”to you coz of the anger issues,
the first thing you should ensure her feelings to you during these 3 weeks, was she serious with the relationship as you or the family thing really touched her “breaking point” ?you and her only lasts 3 weeks do you think 30 days are too long ?
hey act happy, positive side to him !
but don’t be needy like talk to him too much, don’t talk any personal feelings to him, just like at the beginning when you met him! like Nick said “put pieces together”
luckily you and him have strong base and didn’t damaged by another relationship, those are all good sign to the relationship !finally, learn to be happy, confident,humorous, independent woman, of course GUYS will like this like of woman, no pressure and enjoyable !what do you think?
😀if he does not want to talk then don’t push him to talk, give him space, I did push him to talk ,then he told me he doesn’t like me coz more 🙁
you will have a lot more changes to talk to him if keep doing great, give him space, let him chase u, don’t ask him if you can go to gym with him, he will invite u if he wants, take things slowly ! 😀
try to notice the skill of the communication.Kevin told us to read the <<non-violence communication>>, let him accept your soft accent but not “should do or don’t do ” 😀
hope you won’t do the same mistakes as me 🙂
keep up updated !hey if u can tolerate that he might be cheat you again, it’s ok to contact him…
I tried my best to contact him until I don’t want to contact him any more…but nothing changed, it has to be his idea 🙁
keep up updated !you can wait him, but might be a long time,4~6 months, my old ex come back for me after break up 6 months,after dated a girl, he found that he still love me over that girl, but I already moved on after crying every day like 3 months.
you could contact him just like “I went to XX that remind me of you.”take things slowly
I am in a and situation too, and I won’t contact him forever if if doesn’t contact me, I am just that kind of stubborn person, and I know girls are different from boys, boys WILL contact you if they miss you 🙂
if I were u just try to keep “friendship” and try to catch up.
he didn’t contact you probably he was still hurt from your trust issues.
do you have mutual friends? plan a party or something.
don’t be afraid of hurts, at least you tired, even he don’t wanna get back, at least you tried.
hey I can tell his new crazy gf was being jealous, it might not him but her block u, so if you still want him back, stay cool , and do some positive changes, change a hair style or something, be nice to him, make her more jealous, wait and try to contact him after weeks.
hey I can tell she still has feeling with you, but it seems something stuck her, which she does not act what she think, such as she loves you cry for you, but say”it’s too late”thing,
here you have two options:1,make her out have a sincere conversation tell her everything with definitely accent, if she tells you “too late” you reply her “compare to the whole life, it’s not too late” if she tell you anything like that just deny her, if you can’t find anything deny her just ask her “what can I do that make you get back? if you still say no then I have no options I will give up, coz I have tried my best!”2,like Kevin said, do more NC for two months, she probably won’t act different from what she thinks, and it’s important that she is willing to,not you force her to get back.
hope I could help you.
