Boards Reconciliation I still love my ex instead he has new girl friend and he also never contact me.

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  • #10951
    Lovely N
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    Hello Kevin ,

    I just hard to forget my ex boyfriend instead he has new girl friend.I still love him and want him so much still and knowing he has new girl friend drive me crazy.His new girl friend even called me to move on and my ex also never contact me and not worry about me at all.I broke up with him because he cheated and i gave an other chance but i was suspected all the time so we fight and he damped me.I was insecure for my self he disrespect me rude with me and i harrasing him by texting so and called him so many time.Bottom line do u think there is chance i can get back with him?do u think it is good idea if i really want to get back with him?why he never contact and care me at all? Do u think his new girl friend rebound relationship only? Im so jealous with him as i still love him.What should i do? Is that alright if i text him? What should i say? Do u think there is any chance he still want me? Everyday i think about him.Thank you so much Kevin

    Looking forward to hear from you soon.

    Best Regards,

    Anna

    #10958
    aamls
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    you need to do no contact for 30 days then go from ther. also she probably is a rebound so dont worry about her. focus on yourself. good luck ๐Ÿ™‚

    #10960
    Lovely N
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    Dear aamls,

    Thank your for the responded.It was last December 2013 i found him cheated and since that i gave him chance and just cos we are LDR and he always come to visit me every month only one week and since i found he cheated i always suspected and fight so much and we broke up through phone and he did not come to see me for 3 months but we always contact and i contact him too and suddenly he never contact me and never see me untill august 2014 and i got call from girl that she told me i have to move on because now my ex dating with her and i was panic,jealous and un happy and since August i never contact him till now and in fact he has new girl friend.I still love him and want him what i should do?

    #10965
    Vanessa9
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    hey why did she contact u?

    you already didn’t contact him for months (that’s the sign of move on) and why it’s her business to let you move on?

    if he gets over you, she won’t worry about u or care about u moved on or not !

    what’s her accent? angry or normal ?happy ?

    #10967
    Lovely N
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    Dear VannesaQ thanks for the nice respond

    #10968
    Lovely N
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    She kind angry jealous and un happy . Two days before she contact me i called my ex and he did not tell about his new girl friend and i was still expected to get back with him so much and even he still help about financial that i need so the next day i got called from his new girl friend told me to move on and forget about him and of course i let my ex know about that and since that he stop not contact me he rejected my called and block me on his phone he seem choosed her over me i knew it is hurt but i dont have any thing to say i just face it and trying to move on.i did not hear anything from him since that And i dont want to call or text him first it is about 2 months but before he tried to move on not come to see me since january he not contact me and i always the one to contact him. Thank U guys xxxx

    #10971
    Vanessa9
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    hey I can tell his new crazy gf was being jealous, it might not him but her block u, so if you still want him back, stay cool , and do some positive changes, change a hair style or something, be nice to him, make her more jealous, wait and try to contact him after weeks.

    #10972
    Lovely N
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    I just wonder if my ex still love me and want me back why he not trying to contact me first?? Im afraid if I tried to contact him first he would not happy and would only hurt me so that is why I never want to contact him.I feel he love his new girlfriend and he picked her over me that is more hurt me.
    I stop not contact him since August till now and he blocked me from his phone.
    Do u think I will try to contact him instead he has new girlfriend and he does not care about me?
    What I should say if I contact him?? We don’t contact almost 3 months he might have happy life with his new girlfriend

    Confused very much and I’m doubt if he still love and thinking about me

    I do very hard to forget about him

    #10974
    Vanessa9
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    if I were u just try to keep “friendship” and try to catch up.

    he didn’t contact you probably he was still hurt from your trust issues.

    do you have mutual friends? plan a party or something.

    don’t be afraid of hurts, at least you tired, even he don’t wanna get back, at least you tried.

    #10976
    Lovely N
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    Hi VenessaQ how if I will never contact him and I will just wait he contact me

    #10977
    Lovely N
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    If i contact him through sms?? What should I says?

    #10979
    Vanessa9
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    you can wait him, but might be a long time,4~6 months, my old ex come back for me after break up 6 months,after dated a girl, he found that he still love me over that girl, but I already moved on after crying every day like 3 months.

    you could contact him just like “I went to XX that remind me of you.”take things slowly

    I am in a and situation too, and I won’t contact him forever if if doesn’t contact me, I am just that kind of stubborn person, and I know girls are different from boys, boys WILL contact you if they miss you ๐Ÿ™‚

    #10980
    Lovely N
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    Thank you Vanmessaq i will try to text him i just afraid it seem im begging him u know and just disrespect me by i contact him after he has new girl friend

    #10983
    Lovely N
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    In this case he was cheated on me do u think good idea if i expected to get back with him in the future ?thank you Vanessa xxxx

    #10997
    Vanessa9
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    hey if u can tolerate that he might be cheat you again, it’s ok to contact him…
    I tried my best to contact him until I don’t want to contact him any more…but nothing changed, it has to be his idea ๐Ÿ™
    keep up updated !

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