sunshinegirl

I’ve been there too! Hope you’ll like it a lot 🙂
Maybe right now is not the perfect season, but hope you will enjoy!

Joe I am so proud of you!! You’ve made it this far!!

And other guys are truly genius for knowing this!!! I agree with a.z. that your ex misses you and will try everything to reach out to you. Hey the way she called you is crazy!!!

I just wanna to encourage you here – don’t ASSUME you’re weak! Shift your thoughts – tell yourself that “I’m strong!” “I choose to be composed!” “I am attractive!” Use positive thoughts to say goodbye to the negative ones.

Joe, you know that you’re not weak at all. I admire that you’ve made it this far. We all know that you’re strong and attractive. Keep it up, you’re doing really great!

Good for you! I am so happy for you.

Wish you all the best!

Positive vibes here!

So I’ve come to the point that I still had feelings for my ex, but I am ok to live without him 🙂 Plus the “mutual” friend made a lot of things complicated, so I drove 6 hours (crazy huh?) to his place last night and now I’m back home 🙂 (Aw I am crazy!)

This is really a good choice. I got to see him, and realized that his reasons for break-up is real. And that he is really not ready for any kind of relationship. He’s been too stressed out and he still couldn’t sleep well. He really needs to be alone for a while. Best wished for him! I actually said goodbye with a smile on my face 🙂

I can’t predict anything in the future, but I am ready to put all my attention on myself now – for MY OWN GOOD! My ex was pretty smart, he mentioned something like “I am really happy that you’re doing better, but you didn’t get the phase that you’re joyful ALL BY YOURSELF”.

And the things our mutual friend said, was all false. I knew it’s right to trust him 🙂

I’m happy that both of us are working on our lives on a right track, although we’re not together. I am happy that I loved such a wonderful guy.

And I know that I’m worthy a lot of wonderful things, I just need to focus on myself first though. [For now I’ll put all my attention on getting a job]

Especially I wanted to give thanks to A.z. We’ve emailed recently, and every single time her words make me feel a lot better and more calm. She’s absolutely amazing and she’s quiet a wonderful person, also with pretty face 🙂 Thank you, thank you, thank you:)!

Also I want to thank Dara! I haven’t talked here a lot recently, but I did check up on you guys. And Dara, how positive you are and how confident you are now just make me believe that no matter what I’ve been through, I’ll be fine.

I am really thankful for this forum and the people here.

Ok I’m feeling better now 🙂
I just always want to convey positive vibes here rather than negative emotions 🙂

I just felt the way that he really moved on and wanted nothing to do with me anymore. All my friends told me just this only shows that he doesn’t even want to have even one connection with me. What am I supposed to do..?

I was thinking that I wanted closure that I just wanted to see him for the last time. Seeing how cold he is may help me to forget him completely. Because I’m the kind of girl who loves imagining a lot. As long as i don’t see him, I can’t believe he doesn’t love me anymore. Not knowing he doesn’t love me anymore just couldn’t let me let go.

But deep down I still want to be back with him..

Need help asap.

Our mutual friend asked me for coffee out of blue. It turned out she wanted to give me my stuff. Yes my ex sent my stuff to her!

I was acting really well all the way tho. Smile, positive..

But now I’m alone. I can’t stop crying. He even didn’t want to send them to me. He really did not love me anymore?

I can’t stop feeling like I want to see him to give myself a closure. I can’t stop myself from texting him. I didn’t do but I feel the impulse.

Please let me know what I’m supposed to do.

Also, Dara –

Thank you for giving me tips about how to ace exams after the breakup! I still remember your suggestions and they are so helpful!

Staying at one place every day could remind me about bad feelings from yesterday. And I did change places and find another one to study with me to keep me on track!

Thanks a lot!!!!

Saoirse –

I think your idea is great too! Go for it! Good luck! 🙂