Gingerone

Hi guys well we’ve broke up again I’m heart broken I thought things were going well but she said she wasn’t happy. @oshi

I hope everyone has as much luck as I did

@ty10 we went out for breakfast and she mentioned her mum had said we were hanging out a lot again and that she shouldn’t lead me on. And if I was ok with that! It’s a blur to be honest. I just said in panic Ye I was fine with it. It knocked me a bit because of how close we had been recantly. We had made plans to go out for the day. So we did we went shopping (she helped me choose some new jeans and kept saying how fit I looked etc) then we went for drinks had a really good time. I can tell she still has feelings by the looks and the comments. We then went for food and decided to go home. On the way back she asked if it was ok if she went home alone tonight! To which I said of course it was. I walked her home then went home myself.
Few hrs later she txt me asking if I was ok? I said I was fine just watching tv in bed. She replied with thanks for two lovely days ?
I was a bit drunk and annoyed so I just replied with glad you enjoyed. She must have known I was upset & being off because she txt back asking if there was something wrong? Was it something she said or done!
I should have told her straight then but I didnt! Don’t know which way to go now like u said @ty10 I could tell her how I feel and see how it plays out, or I could wait it out and see what happens!

I thought it was! Untill today! We’ve been hanging out a lot even staying the night and hugging etc and I can tell by the way she looks at me she had feelings. She keeps saying I look fit, how cute i do things! She even keeps smiling at me when she thinks I don’t notice. But today we went out for breakfast and she told me she didn’t want to lead me on. We went out for the day anyway and had a great time. But I feel disappointed, with everything that’s been going on I know she has feelings but now I’m not sure how I should play it! @oshi & @ty10 what do u both think?

Hi guys! Here’s what’s been going on recently.

Like I last mentioned we were both going back home for a few days and ment to go for a hike on one of them days. But she suggested we meet up before that.

So we met up the night before the hike, but due to her day being in hospital she had to go visit. She asked me to drive her down which I was cool with. She even asked me to go see her dad as support. So i did. After the visit we went out for food and had a great time. As I went to drop her off at home, she asked if I would stay the night. I said I would if she was sure. I stayed the night we got close hugged and kissed. The next day we woke up made breakfast together and set off on our hike. We had an amazing time, she kept smiling and complementing me. That night she had to go see her father in hospital again and again asked if I would come along, which I did. I was ment to drive back to the city that night for work but again she asked if I would stay the night. I said I would if she was sure. Again we hugged and kissed. She woke me up in the night to say she missed me.
I drove back to the city early morning but we kept in touch via txt. I had an event on sat and she kept texting me to say she was sending me positive vibes and to let her know how I got on.
I told her I had done well at the event, she said she would ring me. We spoke on the phone and she said she was proud of me and told her mum & gran so.
Yesterday she was in contact saying she would be back in the city at some point asking if I was busy etc. I said I had no plans. She contacted me when she got back askin what I was up too, I said as was just watching a film. She replied with how she wished she was cuddled up with me watching a film. I said she was more than welcome to come round. So in the end she came round to mine we watched a film hugged kissed and cuddled. She stayed the night and in the morning when I left for work we kissed again and she even called me babe.

So that’s all of that’s been going on. We’ve been close, closer than we have been for ages. She even posted pics of our hike on Facebook. I think it’s going well I know for sure she still has feelings but I’m trying to play it cool not put to much pressure on her. I want her back but I need to gain her trust again and with every encounter I’m working on that.

Well guys what are your thoughts @ty10 @oshi @jburg32

@oshi glad your exams are going well, must be hard to do with everything.
Not sure maybe I was over confident she says maybe she can’t come on the hike now but would still like to meet up tomorrow night. Not sure what to think I suppose I’ll find out more tomorow. Ye we were intimate but no love making. Kissing hugging she even initiated it. She kept feeling me and saying how good I looked. And what got me is when I woke up and she was just watching me sleep. I know there’s something there but it’s like she doesn’t want to admit it. Like I said I’ll know more tommorow.

@jburg32 it’s like we’re in the same situation. Very strange. How do u feel about it all after you stayed the night? Do u think u might get back together?

@jburg32 how are u? Any news?

@oshi just a bit over 4 months since our break-up.

I know you all said wait till she got in contact to arrange something but I had a good feeling about it all. So I asked her to go with me on a hike on thur (ive got a day off) and she said yes! Funily enough she even said we could meet up on wed evening if I wanted. So double boues. But yes your right I should take it slow. But she’s willing to meet up and that can only be good 🙂