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I think you have the right idea going. Ive never really heard of acute separation anxiety! If it is that, im not sure if its a good idea to call your ex out on that just because anyone can be defensive if they were told that too. I really do hope that she does come around. I mean why dont they want us to love them ya know? Haha
One thing you could do is if you find some chocolate bars somewhere, you could take a picture of it and say “maybe we should add this into the fondue?”
You could also find a cool fondue recipe online and offer to help him cook it!
Hey bingbong, your letter is spectacular but i dont think you should send it either. The situation has changed and the letter would push her away right now i think. I think you should resume no contact again just to make sure you yourself are doing ok. After all, you have to be happy yourself in order to be able to make someone else happy.
She still cares for you and it shows. Time will help both of you right now
Here’s an update for my situation:
I sent the message I said above and she replied with “thanks! I can’t go anymore but means a lot!!”
I think that’s a good response but I still have a feeling she’s just being friendly
I know it’s scary but trust me, he is probably just overwhelmed right now stay strong for these next couple days until your next message but maybe this time make it a little mini compliment. Like for tomorrow I know my ex is having a horse competition coming up soon so I was planning on sending her “hey I remembered that your horse show is coming up soon. Good luck, I know you’ll do great. You’re such a determined person”
See, instead of a happy memory it’s just switching it up a little but still having the same effect
Where did you find the podcast? I can’t find it on this website
He is probably just confused about how he is feeling right now. Since you 2 havent talked in so long he just might be surprised to see your name pop up and be a bit overwhelmed with the emotions associated with you. Make sure to take a deep breath mari.
Your next step: Wait a couple days and try again with a happy memory text. Make sure to not freak out, its gonna be ok! Make sure not to send any other texts right now though. With him being possibly overwhelmed right now it might push him away if he gets more texts
I totally thought kevin was the name of the guy who made this website! Oops! Thats why i was confused i guess haha
Haha it almost seems like we are twins in the way of where we are in our situations! I’m planning on texting my ex gf tomorrow and your doing it today and we both got positive responses when we texted them the first time! Although I didn’t get a smiley face like you did I got a laugh atleast!
Which website are you talking about with the podcasts? I’m not sure who chris is haha and my relationship was partly long distance too so I think I’ll try and listen to the podcasts you’re talking about!
I talked with my ex yesterday! I did the same. It was a memory about us skating together and her crazy laces she had ? She also replied pretty positive and up beat. Or maybe just friendly i don’t know haha she asked me how I was doing and I said I was doing good, then I ended the conversation just so I didn’t over do it or put a lot of pressure on the talk. Hopefully it also gets her to start thinking of me and missing me more too
Is the podcast called “Chris himself” or something else? I wouldn’t mind giving it a try!
How did you talk go?
Im planning on starting to text my ex again today so thats why ive been reading up on it. The circumstances of your break up and mine are similar in th way of distance causing it and no hurt or loss of love happening so i really hope that this goes well for you because i can relate so much! The last 5 weeks of nc were so tough just like im sure they were for you too, just remember to stay calm in your texts and to try and end the conversations 3/4 times. It keeps you in control
Hey bingbong! (Love the name)
About a week ago i downloaded an ebook called “text your ex back” and your actually following the steps perfect haha i just thought it was funny how youve been doing things so right and might not even know.
Tony robbins has a couple good ones
The power of forgiveness part 1&2
Ad how masculine and feminine energies impact relationshipsAll of the heavyweight series is good and the same with serial
What about you?
One thing ive been doing alot lately is listening to podcasts about stuff that might correlate to my relationship. If youd like i can tell you the ones ive listened too
Hey again mari
Sorry i havent responded, ive just been away collecting my thoughts. Its coming up on 1 month since my ex and i have broken up. Ive been reading alot into forgiveness and learning how to restart contact with my ex. Hopefully ill be ready to start texting her soon. And hopefully it works haha im not getting my hopes up too much because ive started to sort of move on but the more i think about it the more im sure she is right for me. Even if things dont work out now, in the long run after university or college is over i hope we can reunite and start our lives together. It pretty crazy that feelings like this exist haha and even though we both got so hurt by this break up i think it was all worth it and i think she is worth it
