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@Lisa26 I think he really want to talk to you, I dont know what his intention is, but maybe he start to missing you 🙂
Since yesterday I’ve been too much thinking about him bcs yesterday is the day he celebrated Paskah and usually he is in his hometown having time with his family. So I thought about what his family reaction about the broke up is, and its really tiring for me. Last night I posted some pict and his sister liked it. Its normal for some people, but not for me bcs she dont follow me, I’m the one who following her. So it provoke my curiosity and the “too much thinking” habit, and today I woke up with a fast heartbeat, like its gonna blow up 🙁
@Lisa26 maybe you have to stop thinking about what he think or what will happen because it doesnt worth anything, only become a burden to you.
@mechanical_penguin86 Im not in that condition bcs he blocked me in the social media. There were some time when I also blocked him but just for few days bcs I thought it such inmaturity act, so I unblocked him. I just posted what I want to post, but there is no post that mean for him, like Kevin said post everything that world can enjoyed and keep all the sad to ourself.
Thats good for you, I hope you can be better with your new activity 🙂I think he is flirting to you, but lets hope for the best and expect for the worst so we can still hold our feet on the ground when there is no thing come.
Btw will you just accept him if he try to get back to you??such a nice update @Lisa26 🙂
He must be feel that you are so confident and enjoying life without him 🙂@Lisa26 Thats a good quote and I like it 🙂
Yes NC is hard, the same condition happen to me too,lost weight and the other, I even got sick because of the stress and what I have to do now is thinking about myself. I do know that I need this broke up to find myself again and to love myself properly 🙂
@samsmith12 hi, I agree with Lisa26 that you should stop that stuff so bith of you can figure out what do you really want,is it going back or the other.
And for the thought that NC is giving our ex a time to get over from us, I dont really know. For me the hardest part of NC is all the thought about him that running around in my head. About do he think about me?Why he do that?Where is his mind?And the other. Thats thought is eating my soul.@old_monk That’s good for you. After 7 years of the relations, I dont know that the relations didnt mean a thing for him, so he can get over it so quick.
I just watched a little of the video, its good enough, but its long enough too, hehehe
Thank you for the sharing 🙂@Lisa26 I dont know if its rebound or not, when the first time he posted their pict which was around a week after the broke up, and I freak out about it and asked his coworker about this but she said she didnt know it. And when I could held my sanity and trying to call him about some important matter, not about the girl, he suddenly said that he didnt have anything to do with that girl and he had no heart bussiness with anyone and all the pict was gone. But suddenly the newest info came to me. I really want to say that I dont care about their relations but it hurt me, it really hurt me inside. Rebound or not, I just dont understand how can he and she do that?!
And Lisa25, Im sorry I havent read your full story, but he didnt break you up?!He just said that something wasnt working here?!He said something like that and ignored you?!What the hell that is that?!
Sorry but how can he do something like that?!
If my ex do something like that and I heard that he went out with some other girl, maybe I’ll punch him, hehehe
But its really riddiculous, how can he act like that?!Thank you for your offering, I really need someone to talk about this because my fam want me to move on and my friend still in mourning state, so I dont have someone to talk, that’s why I made this thread, so I can chat, vent and give support for the other 🙂
@old_monk yes, she must be missing you, I said it as a girl, because as I know, girl always end up forgiving someone that they really love. It doesnt mean that she want to come back to the relations, its just their phase. Angry but missing but angry, that’s what her feel. But thats just my opinion.
By the way, how long have you been in NC??Is it long enough??Because you sound so calm.Hi @Lisa26, that must be difficult for you, not only that he keep running around in your head, you also have to see him everyday in workplace. Even me, who live in the same city with him, sometimes become crazy just because of thought meeting with him.
And I agree that time does help, I already knew that my ex has a new relations with someone, its still hurt to know it but it didnt drive me crazy like 2 weeks ago. Just the thought of “how can he do that?” that still lingering in my head.
I hope we can be stronger in every step we take 🙂Yes, just do the NC, what else we can do??
My situation is not better than yours, I have attracted and connected with him for almost half of my life, and then booom its done, and he’s with someone else, Idk if it true or just something else, I just knew that he’s with someone else. I still think that he is the one for me, he is the love of my life, and I hope someday (I hope next year,hehehe) he will think like that about me and want me to back with him. But this time, the time that God gave me to be a single, I want to try some things that I couldnt earlier. Its hard, but we have to start 🙂There’s a friend of mine who said this to me, “You can do it, you have to keep your style”. I know it sounds funny, but I remembered the girl that my ex fell in love with, the girl with a power on her feet, and im not that girl now. So we have to find ourself again, not only for winning back our ex, but most importantly for ourself.
Yes, its so s*cked.
Yup, texting, calling, stalking are never good idea, its hurted ourself more.Thank you @Mr.Manel for sharing your story. Its just he’s so cold to me right now, he know that I need this and he also need this, it’s like he who do NC to me 🙁
