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After 10 days of no contact my ex contacted me. I waited two days before texting her back. We spoke for 4 hours. She then texted me the next two nights and I responded we had good conversations I told her I was doing well. We didnt talk again until I drunk texted her asking to get lunch with me this past Sunday morning. She said she couldn’t because her cousin was staying with her until Monday morning. I also told her I missed her and I asked if she missed me and she said yea but don’t take that the wrong way and I said I wont I got over it. The next morning (yesterday) I apologized for drunk texting her and we spoke basically all day til we went to bed. I can’t tell if she thinks we are just good friends or just misses talking to me but why else does she text me all day? Does she just want me to be her good friend? I decided to start NC again today but I just wish I could know how she feels about me does anyone have any input for me??
So my ex contacted me on day 10 of no contact saying she wanted to say hi and see how i was doing. I waited two days before texting her back. We texted for 4 hours last night and she seemed like she missed me. We talked about work and she brought up old memories of us. I told her I was doing really good. Before she went to bed she said goodnight and told me she was happy I answered her. I said it was good talking to you she said you too and went to bed. She hasn’t texted me today and I want to talk to her but I’m going to continue no contact. Can anyone tell me if they have any idea how she feels about me?
Do I text her back and tell her I’m doing good/act like I am over her or continue no contact? Help anybody
@tygatyga I think its a good start and you should continue NC. My ex texted me tonight on day 10 of NC and said she was debating whether or not to text me and just wanted to say hi and see how i’m doing and said if u don’t want to answer I totally get it. I didn’t respond yet but was thinking about texting her back tomorrow. Should I text her back in the morning or continue no contact? Any advise is greatly appreciated. Thanks
How long did it take for your ex to contact you the first time? And what did you consider progress?
Today is day 10 of nc. The last thing I wrote to her was “Ok I dont think we should talk for a while im going to need some time to get over u” and she said “ok i am here when u are ready” and then she said goodbye. Is it bad that she knows I’m not talking to her because I am trying to get over her? Should I text her and act like I am over her or continue no contact? Please help
I’m on day 9 of no contact today and I’m struggling. I’m starting to think she may not miss me. Help anyone?
Also, just because she may still have feelings for me does not mean she will necessarily miss me to the extent where she wants me back right? Doesn’t say much but everytime I like a post on instagram she likes the same one right after me. It makes me feel as if she wants me to contact her but I will not. Inputs please?
@Kahlad1030 Thank you for your input. Today is day 8 no contact. I definitely think she still has feelings for me and I feel like she is going to contact me soon. If she does do I ignore her?
How long does it usually take for the girl to start forgetting the negatives of the relationship and start missing the positives?
Can anyone help me? Its been 7 days no contact now.
I’ve read this article and it’s been very helpful. I would love to hear more from anyone on my specific situation.
Also, after the first time she ended it with me I acted like I didn’t care and we continued to talk for about 3 weeks. We then agreed to meet up for valentines day and it went well. Then she went away on a business trip and she texted me every night saying love and miss you. When she got back I assumed we were still together and I pressured her into seeing me again and told her I thought we were still together and it drove her away. Then I became desperate and needy and she felt very bad but continued to tell me she is no longer in love with me or wants to be with me. Once again I know she misses me as she asked me to promise we would maintain a good relationship but we have yet to contact eachother in 5 days. Will she ever be in love with me again?
