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@send_me_your_memes @sansa We ended up meeting tonight and had a nice time had a long chat and she said to make a friendship work we have to be honest about how we feel. I said I still have feelings and want it how it was I asked her what’s stopping her having it how it was. She said cos off all the rows that’s all. So do I still have a chance fixing this
@send_me_your_memes but she’s saying sorry for her cold behaviour I think. Anyway I will start no contact from now
@send_me_your_memes Well even tho we are friends now and shes still being short I just thought I’m not gonna reply to her anymore and then today she sent this email….. why you feel she sent this
Not sure what time you finish work. I’m feeling really guilty now. I hope you understand and realise I’m not trying to be horrible and I know you’re doing nice things. I really want us to be friends. I’m sorry if I am sounding cold and harsh in texts. I don’t mean too and I’m looking forward to cinema and the chilli was a lovely idea. So thank you for offering. I’m sorry Louise : (
@Sansa @patricia12 we are in the same boat. I met mine on Saturday and she kept saying she just wants to be friends and if I want more then we call it quits now. She has all the control. Do I continue being friends and try build the relationship from this or do something different ?
@Sansa @patricia12 we are in the same boat. I met mine on Saturday and she kept saying she just wants to be friends and if I want more then we call it quits now. She has all the control. Do I continue being friends and try build the relationship from this or do something different ?
@amcee now she has come back saying she wants to be friends, what do I do
Its all gone very bad, I told her I love her and friends wont work with me it then get a bit heated and she said we have to stop contact, and said she doesn’t feel the same. so I have ruined anything now haven’t I?
@amcee she’s actually 42 and I’m 32
She was so adiment that she only wants friends and nothing more
I said I wanted more and she said no just friends
But then continued to send me lots of emails how nice I was and nice memories etc@amcee she got back to me and said wants friends only nothing more…… what do I do now
I don’t think she’s heart broken at all. She told me she can just be friends with no feelings there when we split up
@amcee this is odd me and the girl are not friends on fb. I delted her so can’t see what she’s up to and vice versa.
Anyway we meet this lovely couple a few months ago and said we would all meet up again.
I went on fb today and out the blue the lady we met put up pics from that night out and said how wonderful it was to meet us both and are we both free new years eve for lunch as they are over in london.
My ex date replied saying this feels like a long time ago this night out and I replied yes I am free let’s catch up soon.
I hope the my ex doesn’t think I set this up or annoyed for me replying to our friend.
I just found it quite odd too. The mutual friend said she was going through phone and found pics. She doesn’t actuallu know we have split up
@amcee Yeah I wasn’t trying to give her that more so telling her what I want as us just to continue or if she just wants friends that isn’t for me
So she said she’ll go and have a think for a few days and if her mind changes she’ll be in touch.
@amcee Oh I delted her of social media the day of the argument haven’t blocked her just delted
Do you think she’s hurt?
She did say I’m really sad that I don’t want to be friends I said no I dint want just friends I want it as it was
So that’s why she’s gone away to think. She knows of she comes back and just want friends only she’s lost me for good
@amcee thank you again for taking your time to help me. Yes will give her space now and have delted her of social media too so she can’t see what I’m up to etc
The last fight we had I said I wish we never met and she used me. She mentioned this yesterday that those things I said wasn’t very nice . I guess that’s bothering her right now?
