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  • November 25, 2016 at 11:16 am in reply to: Words and Actions dont match #70784
    Lou84
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    Sorry I meant the last row we had on Wed I said I wish I never met her, and she used me and sorry if she hates me.

    November 25, 2016 at 10:56 am in reply to: Words and Actions dont match #70782
    Lou84
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    @amcee I owe her some money and wanted to pay it off, she sent this email thoughts please??

    ‘Why where you going to give me £50 if you forgot taxi. That would have been way too much lol

    I will contact you in a couple of weeks. But you have to give me this space’

    Then I said I am sorry I said things in the heat of the moment, I said I wish I never met her, and she used me and sorry if she hates me.

    She replied this

    ‘I don’t hate you. But certain things said weren’t the nicest of things. Anyway…I’m not going to reply to anything else you send. Until I get in touch in a couple of weeks’

    November 25, 2016 at 9:10 am in reply to: Words and Actions dont match #70779
    Lou84
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    Thanks for getting back to me so quickly.
    So from what I said you feel she is confused?
    No there was nothing like that, more her going hot and cold, and then me overthinking and quizzing if she’s happy or not. That was all.

    November 25, 2016 at 4:24 am in reply to: Words and Actions dont match #70766
    Lou84
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    Thanks for all your replies.


    @amcee     So what I am trying to understand is why did she say on Wednesday night that, I can be friends with you nothing else at all just a friendship. When I asked her to go away and have a think if she wants to continue the relationship we had, she says no, her mind is made up and this has happened to many times.

    Then the next morning she texts me and says I will have two weeks space and a think.

    Is she just saying this because she knows she would lose me for good and just hoping I will turn round and be friends only?

    She sent me a few emails yesterday saying what have I said to my friends about her, as she texted one of my friends and he didn’t reply.

    November 24, 2016 at 2:53 pm in reply to: Words and Actions dont match #70748
    Lou84
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    Sorry yes I didn’t realise my other post posted thought it got declined.

    What was bothering us both I feel is she one min all over me the next cold and that made me quiz us, which then lead to rows. I wouldn’t even say rows more heated discussions.

    I know I can’t convince her to realise anything. She has to do this herself. She said to me once the thing she feels is stopping her move forward with me is fear and not ready

    November 24, 2016 at 2:02 pm in reply to: Words and Actions dont match #70744
    Lou84
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    We rowed cos she used to change the goal posts alot and put rules on the relationship.
    Her words said one thing but her actions said another. We spent all our time together.
    She emailed me 10 mins ago to say I’ll contact you in 2 weeks to see if my mind had changed or not. As in just want friends or more.
    What you feel she will do

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