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What is your KIK address Natty? It may be easier to message you on that.. I had the app, I might just download it again..
Sorry, I didn’t see that you had posted..
I would see if he takes the initiative to re-schedule, which by the sounds of it I doubt.. I told you before, you’re a woman, you can basically talk to 99guys out of 100 and they will take you to a movie..
The ex-wife is in the same boat as us.. She’s chasing a guy that doesn’t want her for anything but sex.. He needs time to “work on himself” it’s crazy because your situations are earily similar..
Also, yes the ex-wife is hot.. But she’s dumb, the current ex is smart as hell, can carry on great conversation and is an intellectual equal..
You know who cancels? Somebody that knows they can because they aren’t worried about the fall out it creates.. Find a guy that’s interested in you, I guarantee that he sits through a movie that he doesn’t like just to spend time with you.
As with the ex-wife you never know, I know that we are going to the movies this weekend and she is staying at my place.. Who knows..
It figures that he cancelled, like I had said earlier, find somebody to go with you to it and “Check In” show him that you don’t need him to take you to it, that it would have been nice if he did..
Yes, This is my daughters mom.. We were married for 10yrs.. If this gets no reaction, then I know for sure that it’s a done deal..
He’s keeping you around as an “Option” you know.. Break Glass In Case of Emergency.. He says and does just enough to keep you holding on.. I hope the movie goes well..
I’m not trying to make her come back because she’s jealous.. I’m trying to slap her across the face with it to wake her up an realize that I’m not going to be just sitting here waiting for her to figure it out..
Yeah, my suggestion is that you put on a dress and go pick up a guy that will take you to the movie.. 🙂 FB friend this random guy, check in at the movies with said random guy and just sit back..lol.. But I know that’s not what you want to hear.. You can’t make him or guilt him into this, it has to be him wanting to do it or it doesn’t mean anything.
My ex-wife is coming to stay the weekend with me. Not the ex I want though.. But, I plan to go out with her.. Take her to all of the places that me and my previous ex used to hang out and wait to see which person tells her faster. Because you see, my ex wife is smoking hot and my ex was always extremely jealous of her.. If that doesn’t flip the switch, it’s pretty much a done deal.. Lol..
I told her to keep the ring, I had also told her that if she was ever in a bind “Financially” that she could sell it but not to take anything less than 3K for it which is still a steal..lol. I know that she wouldn’t ever keep it though, my ex wife before her took everything from me and kept doing so for as long as she could, even though things ended like they did between us, she wouldn’t do that to me, that’s why she refused..
He’s going to say and do whatever it takes to have open communication with you.. Natty, you are an option to him right now. He knows this because of how you feel and what you have said to him, don’t let him do this to you, you’re better than that!!
Yeah, he’s trying to find a common ground with you ie: the movie.. You have been basically blowing him off.. So, now that he has seen this, he’s going to use it to open up a solid line of communication with you, just because everything else has fallen short..
The ring is in her nightstand, in the original box, I almost feel like if I did that, it would be upsetting to her, down the road.. Not sure though..
It sounds as if he is still trying to keep you on the hook.. Whether it’s for down the road when he is bored and has nothing better to do. Or in his mind if he’s looking for the occasional hook up.. Guys are for the most part “Dumb” Natty..
I’m thinking about selling the engagement ring Natty, not because I need the money.. Just because I believe that it would help in letting go.. What do you think?
I know what you mean Natty.. I had asked my ex to tell me “that she never wanted to see me again, and to stay out of her life” I basically begged her to say it so that I could move on.. But, like usual.. She refused to do so.. I never asked her for anything during our relationship.. Figure she would do this for me.. Nope.. I’m going to do the best to stay away from her.. We’ll see what happens..
Yeah, I’ve been messaging a few girls.. One in particular I talk to every night.. Still, it’s difficult because I’m looking for what I once had with the ex, which I’ve already conceded will never happen.. Unfortunately I’m not giving the girls I’m talking to the opportunity to impress me because of how close minded I am.. I just have to get over it.. One day maybe it will happen..
Lol.. If you towards the food end, you might not find another guy.. jk.. 🙂 he is doing exactly what you said above, when he is feeling down or just simply bored, he’s going to message you.. Unfortunately for you, you are just sitting around waiting for that message or anything for that matter.. Which is killing you, because right now.. He’s your everything, but to him you are his “Sometime” thing.. If that makes any sense..
That’s good Natty, you need the distraction.. Try to give yourself an emotional break from this situation.. Maybe this will help to clear up some things for you.. I have that situation as well, she says that she wants nothing more than to have our family back together and she wants to be back in my arms.. But then every Saturday night she is staying at some guys house.. Which was confirmed the other day when I text her about it, she said what do you want from me? To just sit around and be miserable? I’ve been miserable for a long time! I can’t do this anymore..
My brother is out of the hospital now and is doing OK..
