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  • #48858
    Coolcat
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    Well it’s organised going with my ex tonight to see
    Jurassic park. He doesn’t seem too enthused he was like an earlier session if possible cause im tired. I’m not trying to force him into anything but I dunno just his behaviours are weird
    And I’m sick of it. He keeps me hanging round and for what. It’s not for his self esteem cause I don’t really make him feel that much better about himself these days and there has to be a point where he just stops that bullshit.

    Lol well jam who knows what could happen with the ex wife hehe. But good luck. Also remember you don’t want her to want you back just cause she got jealous cause that’s not enough of a reason for her to stick around in the long run so rememver that ?

    #48862
    JAM818
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    He’s keeping you around as an “Option” you know.. Break Glass In Case of Emergency.. He says and does just enough to keep you holding on.. I hope the movie goes well..

    I’m not trying to make her come back because she’s jealous.. I’m trying to slap her across the face with it to wake her up an realize that I’m not going to be just sitting here waiting for her to figure it out..

    #48864
    Coolcat
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    Well you’ll never guess what JAM, I got a text right as I finished work a few hours after he messaged me about going to an early session and was like “Sorry to be gay but I’m starting to not feel well so I’m going to pass on tonight, I’m going to nap when i get home”. Fucking over this he may actually be sick but either way i feel shit after he went to the effort of deciding to go with me arranging a time today and then hours later cancels and I’m the one left feeling shit. I responded with “no problems” cause at this point even though its still hurtful I don’t care, I’m so done with this shit. On an evening organised by him in which he said it would be good to catch up he cancels fuck him.

    Is this the wife you have your child with ? How will you feel if your ex doesn’t react or care

    #48878
    JAM818
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    It figures that he cancelled, like I had said earlier, find somebody to go with you to it and “Check In” show him that you don’t need him to take you to it, that it would have been nice if he did..

    Yes, This is my daughters mom.. We were married for 10yrs.. If this gets no reaction, then I know for sure that it’s a done deal..

    #48884
    Coolcat
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    Yeah but who the fuck cancels on a thing they planned and asked you to ? Like yes he may legitimately be sick but still fuckking over it. Why do you say it figures ? And yeah lol i asked two other guys and both said they don’t want to see it either ๐Ÿ™ so i got nothing unless I lie haha which i don’t want to do.

    You sure nothing could happen with the ex wife haha you said she is attractive lol.

    #48887
    JAM818
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    You know who cancels? Somebody that knows they can because they aren’t worried about the fall out it creates.. Find a guy that’s interested in you, I guarantee that he sits through a movie that he doesn’t like just to spend time with you.

    As with the ex-wife you never know, I know that we are going to the movies this weekend and she is staying at my place.. Who knows..

    #48890
    JAM818
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    Also, yes the ex-wife is hot.. But she’s dumb, the current ex is smart as hell, can carry on great conversation and is an intellectual equal..

    #48891
    Coolcat
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    When you say that does it even matter if he was legitimately sick ? Everything he’s doing is exactly the same as last year its just sending warning bells off lol. Doesn’t mean i think it will have the same outcome but you know what i mean. Right down to us going to a movie last year but he was then sick apparently.

    And I don’t know where to meet another man, I work a lot and that is where I met my last ex and there are no really lovely men at my store that i would consider haha.

    Oh la la ๐Ÿ˜‰ hehehe date night for sure. Lol don’t listen to me really I’m too young to actually know about marriage and adult relationships especially when you have a child in the mix. Wouldn’t it be nice to have your family together again though ๐Ÿ™‚

    #48914
    JAM818
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    Sorry, I didn’t see that you had posted..

    I would see if he takes the initiative to re-schedule, which by the sounds of it I doubt.. I told you before, you’re a woman, you can basically talk to 99guys out of 100 and they will take you to a movie..

    The ex-wife is in the same boat as us.. She’s chasing a guy that doesn’t want her for anything but sex.. He needs time to “work on himself” it’s crazy because your situations are earily similar..

    #48938
    Coolcat
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    Lol oh we posted at the same time so I didn’t see your other response either. Yeah I understand intelligence is important but you were married to her for 10 years ? Lol well by the looks of things my ex is working on himself so if your ex wifes man is then good on him.

    I don’t think my ex will reschedule because he’s an arsehole haha. I’m definitely not going to reach out to him now not that I have cause he’s always the one messaging me. I’m going to try and pull away more cause I’m over it. However he might have actually been sick cause he said he was going to sleep it off and he was offline on fb for about 11 hours haha. I dunno haha over this shit

    #48949
    JAM818
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    What is your KIK address Natty? It may be easier to message you on that.. I had the app, I might just download it again..

    #48950
    JAM818
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    I’m JAM7485

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