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I ended up just sending a quick text to him on his birthday just saying “hey happy birthday I hope you have a great day!” And he responded “thanks bridge” (bridge is my nickname that everyone calls me, which he knows I love when people call me it). I just didn’t respond cause I got nervous and we haven’t talked since Friday now. I don’t know if he’s with this other girl though they seem like good friends who hook up but it’s not like an official thing, which is fine that doesn’t bother me I have one of those too it’s just not like I have feelings for him though like I do for my ex. Should I text him soon and ask how is birthday was?
Also I’m awful at talking to new guys haha so trying to approach this as a new guy will be difficult I always get really awkward when I’m hit on
It was kind of mutual I guess were both in college I’m a sophomore and he’s a freshman and I was being too clingy and as a freshman boy in college it obviously chased him away but yeah I’ve dated other guys not like seriously I’ve just like hooked up with other people and I’m sure he has too but I’m not 100% sure I don’t really ask our friends cause I don’t wanna know but he’s very attractive so I’m sure he has, I mean it’s college and we both party a lot. We both go to school in Boston and are from the same town so I could ask to hang whenever, we go on summer break in like 3 weeks as well. Do you guys think I should start trying to send flirty texts after his birthday next Friday? Like start then? Or wait until were both home from school?
Yeah he always responds just last time all he texted back was with the monkey emoji and it was Thursday night so I knew both of us were going to be going to parties and drinking so I just didn’t respond but usually if I get a text that’s kind of like a conversation ender I won’t reply because I don’t wanna feel like I’m annoying him, but were both on really good terms with one another we’ve already gone through all the drama part and now I realized now that things are calm I still love him and always will and would love to give it another shot, I just don’t know how since we’ve been broken up for 6 months
Also should I wait until his birthday next week to text him or should I try to start talking to him again now? Answers please
How should I try to do that I don’t want him to be like annoyed if I try to talk to him all the time we only talk briefly like once week since we met up about a month ago. He’s texted me once and I texted him twice but I don’t wanna annoy him if I do how would you advise I go about it?
Hi Aphrodite you offered me some great advice on one of my posts but my situation took a turn for the worse and would love for you to go read my latest posts because I’m struggling on what to do now…thanks please comment back with advice!
Hey you commented on my post for advice so I think it’s good for you to think that that’s what he meant because you could be pleasently surprised I always say prepare for the worst but also don’t make yourself miserable because if he was flirty with you (and if he initiated it) he is thinking about you! Just go into it with an open mind and like it’s just a fun night for you! I had fun on mine and I was pleasently surprised the hard part now is just figuring out where to go now!
So he re-followed me on Instagram Monday and then today he liked my picture and then uploaded one himself. (He very rarely uploads pictures especially throwback Thursdays) so idk if he’s trying to get my attention for me to text him or what? Advice!!!!
Would love feedback please because I’m getting antsy and I don’t wanna make a mistake!
So quick update we haven’t talked since last time when we agreed we were going to hang out over Christmas break. I haven’t texted him and he hasn’t texted me I thought it would be best to let him contact me because he was the one who suggested we hang out. He came home yesterday from school and he also refollowed me on Instagram. I’m not surprised he hasn’t texted me yet because I think he doesn’t wanna make it seem like texting me to hang out is the first thing he’s looking to do when he’s home but I also don’t know if he refollowed me on Instagram to get my attention like to text him or he’s just really really trying to be friends with me (which I obviously don’t want cause I don’t wanna be friend zoned). So I think that I should give it a couple more days to see if he texts me to meet up but Id like feedback on that! Also what do I do after the meet up?! Thanks!
He also initiated us hanging out last night which was great and I’m really excited about that, does that mean he just wants to catch up with me or is he missing me and wants to get back together? Also he hasn’t texted me back since we agreed to hang out will he text me again or should I text him?
