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    Lorna4329
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    So yesterday my ex texted me for plans and we hung out after work at 5. We got chipotle and sat there for 3 hours and then we went to Dunkin donuts and say and talked for another 3 hours when we both finally admitted we wanted to hang out more we ended up hanging out until 2 am. He kept trying to hold my hand and he grabbed my knee while he was driving. We had a great conversation the whole night (never brought up anything from the breakup) he kept trying to hold my hand and we did but that was the most that happened really, we cuddled for a little at my house and just talked but I thought things were moving too fast for the first time hanging out for the breakup so I stopped cuddling with him kinda. So he then drove me home and I thought about kissing him but didn’t cause I want him to chase me. Idk if I should text him tomorrow and say hey do you wanna go shopping for your sisters Christmas presents? Cause he said he needed help but idk if I should let him text me even though he was the one who texted me to hang out the first time? And idk if I should wait another day until I make more plans with him cause we just hung out yesterday? Also do you think he wants me back or was he just being touchy feely cause he’s home from school? (He was a gentlemen the whole night though he never tried anything more than hand holding, cuddling, and just grabbing my knee oh and he kept calling me cute too) so idk what do you guys think? Do I have a good chance of getting him back now?

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    Confused_Girl
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    I’m seeing my ex tomorrow, and I’m nervous about it. Even though last night when we were texting, he was flirty. He said “so shush about your second chance or whatever…lol” which I took that as him still flirting. He might’ve thought I’d say something about it, but I didn’t plan on it. I think him saying that was pretty straight forward and he meant just that. What do you think?

    I just thought I’d ask you because you’re a step ahead of me. But about yours, I think he misses you

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    Aphrodite
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    Yeah I think you have a chance:) wait for him to pursue you again, that’s my advice anyway! Apparently guys like that feeling of chasing so let him chase you a bit, but reward him with smiles when he does:) it seems like he is considering getting you back to me, but wait and see and just take it easy:)

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    Lorna4329
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    So I shouldn’t text him tomorrow and offer to help shop with him?

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    Lorna4329
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    I work at the mall already so I would already be there to help once I get off work

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