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@patricia12 Thank you for your answer.
I was dumb enough to text him back but it just made me realise that I’m better on my own and I don’t need this type of person in my life.
We had little chat what is going on in our lives and I guess that he was just bored, because the next day he texted me again, just hey.
I think that after 9 months I’m worth more than just hey.I’m probably weak. I can’t throw all of it away.
I know that I still love him and I would do anything to be with him.
But him ignoring me the whole time kind of speak to me. That he really doesn’t want to do anything with me.
So, I guess that I have to move on somehow.But I don’t understand why he liked my picture on Instagram about a two weeks ago.
Well, positivity attracts positivity:) if you will act like nothing happened she would be curious why you are like that and she then could contact you again.
But it also depends on the fact why she wants to see you.I think that she wants to know if you are still into her. If she can have you as a safety net.
If you are planning on going act like everything between two of you happened a long time ago.
Imagine yourself how would you act if it was a five years from now.
Be nice and happy. Don’t talk about any of yours or hers relationship, not even the one between the two of you.Thanks for your reply.
Some days it’s better but then some memory come through my mind and it’s worse again.
I am trying to be happy, enjoy my life and be the best version of myself.
But I don’t know how to stop thinking about him. Like I am not thinking about the other girl and their relationship.
But I still see him in every little thing in my life.
And I don’t know anything about his life.
It’s hard.Hi, I went through something similar. My ex boyfriend is similar type as yours. He doesn’t like to talk about his feelings and stuffs like that. And when he broke up with me in March, after 9 moths together, he said to me something similar as yours. That he needs to be alone and that he’s not ready for a sirious relationship. And that he doesn’t understand why he doesn’t want me.
Well, I aplyed NC rule, trust me it was hard. But after month and a half he started contacting me.
So, I would suggested no contact rule and be happy. When he’s going to see you enjoying your life, he will wanting to be part of it.But from my experience.. Let him work for you. Don’t believe every word he says to you. Let him chase you for some time and show you his love, not tell you..
Because in my case he was saying all this wonderful things.. How he realised that he wants to be with me, that we are going to work on this realitonship, that he wants to live with me.
Week ago he broke up with me without any reason, two days ago I discovered that he has a new girlfriend, that he was texting with her the whole month and he slept with her two days after he broke up with me.So, please! Don’t do the same mistake as me. Work for your realitonship, but let him work to. Don’t jump into it because you love him.
Let speak his actions, not his words..
I hope it ends well.Okay, the situation solved itself. He’s not a child, he’s an huge di*k. Yesterday one girl sent me photo of them kissing,because she sow me sad that night. And wrote me that I have to move already on after 3 moths. And the. I texted her that I was already kind of moved on, but then he came back and broke up with me a week ago. No answer. I guess she didn’t know it. And he was playing with both of us.
I hope she dumped him, because he’s really just a jerk.Well, I though that the answers are going to be mostly about moving on. I really think that he needs to grow up. He’s moving in three months for university, so he will have to grow up there.
I am okay with getting back together with him even after a year or more.
Because I know that I can’t be with someone like him.
But that doesn’t change the thing that I still love him and I don’t know how to cope with that.
Is it even possible to get back together after a year or more? When we are going to live in different cities?
