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Its not my native language, i apologize about thatI moved out on 28.3., so we are not a full month apart, 20 days
Is it ok to text her tommorow? Because i texted her yesterday
Maybe i can fix my cold message and say i was in a rushCan you just go back to my last post and see about the facebook and my nickname, i dont know if it means something bad
Thank you very much for your time and patience Patrica!
Few days ago, i was in contact with her mom, she said to her mom its weird without me, because we lived 3 years together, what means that?
The conversation where she said that she still loves me and misses me, that was in real, so we spoke, no texts or calls, that was when i was in her house.
Before that conversation when she broke up in the house i tried everything, i told her that i will do everything, i love her, bla bla, i wanna change myself, “then” she said she want to be friends, she said as well why are you guys wanna take the stars after you realize when you lose something, so i show her then that i care a lot and other things, should i text or call her one more time before the quarentine ends and tell her about things that i wanna change, that i miss her and love her and other stuff or should i wait for the coffee (the problem is maybe she will not contact me for the coffee beacuse it will take too much time till then, maybe she will be colder)?
After the break up, i put my nickname to I Love You! so everytime when i text her she will see instead my nickname I Love You!
3 days ago she removed on her facebook profile “in a relationship”
She still have our pictures
And yesterday when i texted her, she changed the I Love You! to my name, why did she do that all?@patricia12
I am in Irelnad, they said till 5.5., if the situation will be better they will open, they will probably end the quarentine
Ok, friendly, cool, not cold, not to mention the past, just my feelings like i carry about her continue, right?
What about that what i say, maybe to text her again and be nicer and show that i miss her? If yes you can write an example, like i said, i am not feeling good and i cant even think what to text, what to say@patricia12
Can i fix this?
Maybe to text her in a few days before the quarentine ends that i miss her@patricia12
Haha, yeah the thing is i dont wanna show i miss her, maybe thats wrong, i dont know, you guys said its not good to mention the past, i dont know really, maybe its ok to be like a little bit cold, i am losing hope, what should i do now, i am devasted and i cant think clearly@patricia12 i am sorry for spaming my messages i didnt know what to text her thats why i posted more messages in a row
So, the conversation was like this
Me: Hey how are you?
I would enjoy going for a coffee or a walk with youShe: I am good, you?
How’s that?Me: I’m good, thank you
If you want to go, keep in touchShe: Well, we can, just wait to calm this down a little bit (she was thinking about the lockdown)
How’s your house?Me: Good
It was nice to hearing with you, but I have to go. keep in touchShe:
Ok, goOpinion?
I texted her, she answered i am good, how are you
How’s that? (Like she didnt expect that for the walk and coffee)
What should i reply and should i reply now?@patricia12
I texted her, she answered i am good, how are you
How’s that? (Like she didnt expect that for the walk and coffee)
What should i reply?@patricia12
Nice explained, what do you think, when can i text her, should i wait more or?@Jackzzv121 its not a month ago from the last contact, like i said it was 5.4.and 12.4. on Easter, so basically its lower then month
I will stop then to post on facebook stuff
The core reason is not giving too much attention/passion, thats what she said and she is scared i will be like that in the marriage
@patricia12 i am really sorry for asking again, i am little confused now, i just dont wanna make a mess about the situation, i just wanna make sure
Should i ask her how is she been or for a coffee/walk? (Straight the first messege)
Because Jackzzv121 said if i ask her how is she been will not help at this stageHaha, you are funny, but in the positive way, so no contact till the nightmare ends (if it happens), some people said maybe its good to text her like “how are you, i hope you doing well in this nightmare (covid)”, because its like kind, and she love kindless, now i dont know if its better to text her or no, but i am thinking if i text her that, she will love that but in the friendzone way, but in the opposite way i didnt gave her too much attention in relationship, and if i text her, thats something like attention, what do you think?
I dont post sad things, only picture of myself for example like drinking beer in garden because its lockdown
I wanna say a big thanks for you guys for helping me, really, i appreciate that
So,text her or no?
Continue posting stuff or no?
I know that i need to be happy and friendly arround her, i need to win her heart againOh man its hard to know that, she is sometimes a closed person, dont wanna show the feelings or talk to other persons, sometimes she is very strong in her head, but she have the limits, if she regret this maybe she will contact me, but i dont know really, what if i wait to the 5.5. if the lockdown for the Covid-19 stops, i will need to go to my work, and the thing is she works in my company so i can see there how she react when she see me? Or maybe i can ask her direct there for a coffee or a walk?
I apologize for my english
@patricia12 maybe you have an idea?Another question, we are still friends on social media, should i post sometime a picture from me like i moved on or i am good or bla bla, or no post till i text/ask her?
@Jackzzv121 not a full month, from 28.3., only 5.4. birthday and easter on 12.4. texted each other, does it mean i need to wait these 2 weeks or more? She said that on the break up that she wanna be friends and is open to coffees and walk.
I forgot to said that, i cried a lot and bla bla when she broke up, does that change something?Thank you very much for the response, i waited 5 days to approve my thread from admin, i see you have a lot of experience Patricia and you helping a lot here for other people as well, for how long should i wait because i read about the NC rule?
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