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Hey there sweetheart,
I hope you’re doing well and still going strong. I know how hard it feels when you feel like you really need that person in your life but that person doesn’t even need you at all anymore. Well, I’m glad you did the NC because at least your have tried to do something and put some effort to fix the situation. I would suggest you do the NC for a month since I think you have a few more days to complete it. Make sure before you end the NC that you’re totally recovered from the break up mess and you are no longer dependent on anyone else except yourself. Start believing that somehow, someday, if you and him are to be, nothing can stop it. And if it doesn’t happen, it just means God is saving you for someone special that is much better than him. Girl, if he misses you, he’ll contact you, if he needs you, he’ll tell you, if he loves you, he’ll prove it to you. Fall in love with a guy that will do anything to be your everything, and if he won’t do it, then he’s just not worth your time. Girl power!
I’m always here for you if you need me, update me on your story anytime! love yah x
@divjun Thanks so much for replying, I really appreciate it 🙂
Yeah we were together as a couple for 3 years but we first met on January 2011.
I don’t know what to think. I feel like he loves me but I just can’t be sure.
But, he does seems really annoyed when I call him to the point where he even screamed at me on the phone and hung up. It was weird though because at that time I wasn’t even arguing with him or anything, I was just merely saying what I feel. Deep down inside, I feel like I need to put myself together and do NC. Although I’m quite afraid that being the person I am that is not so strong, I might not be able to do NC. But whatever it is, I need to start doing NC tomorrow because I feel like that might only be the thing that will save our relationship. So I’ll just risk whatever it takes and do NC and hope for the best. Since tomorrow he’s leaving for his university so basically he’s leaving our hometown, I’ll have our last call tonight before I start the NC tomorrow. Any advice on what I should say or do for this last call with him before I go NC? I’m so nervous to talk to him today because it feels like I need to make this right because it’s before I do NC. The pressure is killing me. Help!Do you think he’s still confused now? I’m scared that he might already made up his mind since his last action was actually sending a screenshot of his phone’s wallpaper which is a photo of Erica and saying he wanted to clean up his mess for her. He also said that he forgives me and hopes I forgive him and that the we are in good terms. He’s going to leave for university tomorrow so today I might call him and have a talk for one last time before he leave our hometown and before I start NC. Any advice on what I should say or do for this last call with him before I go NC? I’m so nervous to talk to him today because it feels like I need to make this right because it’s before I do NC. The pressure is killing me. Help!
Hey @clear,
From what I’ve read, I think she really is still interested in you. I’m also a girl and I’m also 18 years old so I think I can relate to her. If she’s still checking you out on social medias there’s a huge chance that she’s still not over you. She’s probably just waiting for you to post stuffs on your snapchat, facebook etc just to see how you’re doing. Sometimes when girls get too hurt, they need a break. Sometimes a few days, sometimes a week, depends on what kind of girl she is and how hurt she is. I think she really is hurt from the things you did and she’s still confused and what she should do.
She gets jealous when you’re around other girls and I think that is a good sign because girls get jealous usually because they still have feelings for the guy. But, there’s also a downside to that. She might feel like the other girl is a threat to her and she’ll run to you back and make up or she’ll feel brokenhearted that you’re talking to another girl and she’ll feel like you moved on and she needs to move on to. The key is to not make her too jealous or you might lose her. Just be positive. Smile and show your good side when she’s around. Try not to hang out with other girls since for now, I don’t think it’s a good idea. You absolutely have a chance to win her back and get back together. She obviously still wants you. Maybe try to give her a few days and then try to slowly make contact with her and check up on her. Just make her feel like you still care about her, you still love her and you are always there for her. Do stuffs that will move her and will make her come to her senses, I know you can get her back, just have to make sure you do the right things.Good luck anyway, update me on your story anytime, I’ll be here for you 🙂p/s : Mind reading my story? I need some advice too. Hope you can give me your thoughts on it, thanks 🙂
