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Yeah I’m not gonna contact him and hopefully he’ll message me. I think I’m gonna go see his dog on Tuesday while he’s not there as per his request but I shall upload a snapchat of the dog and I which he will most likely see lol. I just don’t want him to be the only one to reach out but also I don’t want him to reach out for the wrong reasons. Cause I see on his latest post on him fb which he rarely ever does was directed at his little friend he looks fine and stuff. This is the friend that hates me and I would be interested to know this friends opinion on what my ex has said to me and him adding me back. It’s all just very opposing to what he’s said and some of his
Behaviours last year particularly the fb. Could his main reason fr addng me back be because he thinks I’m not going to act as crazy as last time ?I’m regards t your ex lol look at what you say to me. Time and patience :p I have no idea what the fuck my ex is doing and why he’s doing it. At least your ex is in contact and doesn’t think you’re a crazy ex 🙂
Yeah, horrible idea to go out tonight.. Should have just maintained NC.. She showed up and hung out with some mutual friends.. “guys” and I stayed separted with other friends..
We talked for a few mins here and there.. I invited her to come over afterwards, which of course isn’t happening.. She feels that keeping the distance will be beneficial to the break.. I had another girl talking to me while I wa there, which once again I shut down..
I just need to move on, it’s never going to be the same with us and I should just accept that, she text me that it would be easy to just fall back into the relationship but that’s not what she wants, she just wants to be friends right now..
Bleh…
We text this morning, I told her that I felt there were too many doors open still from the separation. Things we had never resolved and words that were never said that probably should have been..
We are going to meet up on Tuesday to close some of those doors in order for both of us to effectively move on with our lives. We are both miserable without each other. But can’t at this point in time be with each other..
After we talk on Tuesday.. That will be it for me..
I’m very sorry to hear that JAM ! I hope it gives you the closure you need :(. You do never know what the future holds but obviously at this point in time its not possible. I hope we still see you on this forum as you’ve been a great help to me and I’m sure some others ! Let me know if theres anything I can do 🙂
The talk went well, we talked about things that we didn’t when we split.. She said that if in her heart she felt that things would be different we would work it out.. But, she doesn’t see that happening.. We talked about how much I have learned and how much I have changed and she said that maybe next time when I actually do find the right one, things will be better for me.. We sat on a park bench she cried with her head on my shoulder as I held her. We walked to our cars, I bought her some flowers and gave them to her, two years ago today was when I had asked her to Marry me.. We hugged each other for a long time, I kissed her on her head.. Then we went our separate ways, this is where it probably ends everybody.. Best of luck to you and your quest to get your ex’s back..
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