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Hey friend!
I’m glad everything is getting better for you! As for me I’m back and forth. I am no longer worried about her, I’ve gotten rid of her from my social media because I have way too many other stressors in life to deal with than to worry about her anymore. Schools really been kicking my ass because of the bad start I had (because I was too worried bout her) but I’m turning it around now. I am now on antidepressants because of everything however but I will be traveling around soon to figure shit out haha. Also, I’ve really been into my music lately (maybe too much because it’s distracting me from my school 😅) but I will be meeting with Lil Wayne’s engineers soon once im ready. It Started out as a hobby but now it’s been my obsession lately and i didn’t think that people would think I’d be good enough to get the chance to meet with the people that works with Lil Wayne but things are looking up slowly! I’m glad that both of us were able to find things that do make us happy and hopefully it’ll get a whole lot better for us from here 🤗.
Hello his close friend (girl) who I talk to sometimes said that my ex is being dramatic on their gc about us she offered to tell me the whole thing but I declined and told that “I don’t want to hurt myself anymore by checking up with his actions and if his depression is coming back again I know that he can handle it and we should believe in him.”
Can’t say I wasn’t intrigued but second hand information can do more harm than good I want it to come from his mouth. Did you think I did the right thing.
Hello I am extremely sad I have read from a post that my ex is still not over his crush this crush happened before our relationship so does this mean our relationship is nothing at all? I cried so hard before we started going out I asked him if he was over this girl and he said yes so we started dating this girl was never an issue between us during our relationship.
I know you dont check this board as often buy he talked to me yesterday saying sorry and all saying he feels guilty etc etc he asked if we can still see each other? and I answered no.
He contacted me again it was a nice talk dunno bout the rest he asked if i have suitors? I jokingly answered I can’t count it by hand. All in all it was a positive convo.
I’d probably have to have heard it but you probably did right thing. You might have gotten hurt more. Depression and mental illness is hard to deal with especially dating and the breakup. I’ve struggled for almost year after breakup with what ex who is dealing with depression, anxiety and bipolar. Haven’t heard word from her since and what did her second hand was not nice and just made me mad but forgave her cause most was lies and don’t think she can help it. But makes the breakup and getting over it so much harder
I can relate to anyone who has dated and loved someone with depression or another mental issue. I started dating friend I’ve know for over 30 years and everything was great for months. All of sudden she started slowly if at all responding and with my own anxiety I thought worst. She asked for space and I’d give little to her but then would check on her cause she was struggling physically and I know now mentally. This ended up making her mad ever few weeks until she said there was nothing left for me with her. For months I did the worst thing could do and tell her I love you and all that stuff and she never responded. I’d go a month and then reach out and nothing and try again month later. It’s been almost 10 months and I haven’t heard a word and haven’t reached out in about 3 months. I’ve found out since she is bipolar and not only have I lost great friend but women I love. I’ve finally come to terms and am doing no contact for my own good like should have done long time ago. Come to find out I also had issue causing my anxiety which made her going silent very hard but had surgery to correct back in Dec and makes the NC much easier.
I’ve learned if they ask for space or breakup go NC for your self and not a tool to play games and try and get your ex back. I couldn’t do it and cost me women thought I’d marry now I’ll probably never hear from her again cause pushed her away.Yes when we talked I realized that the breakup wasn’t about me it was about him and nothing I will do will make him realize that our relationship deserve another chance but I am lucky to have initiate NC for 4 months until he contacted me because his behaviour after the breakup is really hurtful and in this 4 months I even liked the idea of us not getting back together.
hi yes we still are together but a lot have changed mainly on my part I continue to have a feeling that I’ll be fine if we break up anyday. I guess a bit apathetic.
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