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Hey!
Something came to my mind, it’s not a plan or anything….it’s just something that I thought of in a very normal way, and I want to share it with you.
So recently a new movie came out in Italy, like 4 days ago, dragon trainers 2.
Me and my ex never watched the first at the cinema, we watched it on dvd at his home, and we loved it so much!
We were sure that they’ll do a second one,and we always joked about how his dog was almost like the protagonist’s dragon.We always loved going to the cinema, our first date was at the cinema.
My friend ,out of his circle of friends, already saw it…so or I go watch it alone…which is a bit sad actually, or I could ask him.
Listen to this: when 22 jumpstreet came out he went to see it with his friends, but I was actually the one who made him see the first so when the second was annunced we were happy. Unfurtunaly when they went to see it I didn’t established the false friendship, so they didn’t call me.
When they told me I did the false offended and laugh it off without problems, but then I suggested to go and watch dragon trainers 2, and this is where my problem is.
They say that they’ll probably skip it, money issue, but ….really, come on on wednesday our cinema price is just like 6 euros, but I didn’t press on.
That’s when it came to me that maybe me and him could go watch it together. I didn’t call it a date in my mind but I really really think that we could have great time if we go together like “friends”.
So I want to send him a text:
Hey! listen tonight the cinema cost only 6, how about we go to see dragon trainers2? I think it’ll be a pity to miss that. what do you think?
The problem is the money issue, I’m not sure what to do if he respond with that. I mean …I’m not sure if I should tell him that I’ll pay for him in honor of old times? or that he’ll treat me later when he can.
I really don’t think of this as a date, I just think that is a great opportunity to begin going out alone and to keep things simple,fun and friendly.
Anyone has any more convincing,better ideas for the text?
Hey,
I think you can go.I remember when i wanted to go out with my ex kevin said it was ok if it was only the two of us.
If you can control your emotions call him.Be super excited,Act like friends and tell him what you want.
If you are really don’t think of it as a date he’ll get the vibe.
Be cool,happy,excited,confident…. and do it.
In fact,its a great bliss reminder opportunity.ahahah great! I feel better.
I actually asked him, but he said that this week he’s a bit busy for the upcoming exam ( in 8 days ). So I said that is ok, don’t worry, it was a chance for a relaxing night out then I said that now I needed to go to gym, and at the end I wished him good luck with his studies.
There is still a slim chance that he could change his mind since it’s still early…ahahhaha I hope because I was looking forward , ahhaha both the movie and to a fun night out with just the two of us.
…we’ll see
Giulia –
I’m so happy for your positive attitude! Your plan sounds great and I’m sure things will work out for you!Ehy guys
do you have some idea for THE TALK?
What I should say when maybe I see that he showed more interest or he is less unsure about you?the talk that will make that stronger?
Hey,
TBH,i don’t think if you should say anything special until the forth meet up ( if you think he is really showing interest in getting back with you ).Even if he is showing more interest,it doesn’t necessarily mean that he wants to get back with you.You should be calm,positive patient and play it cool.
From the next meet up,you can touch him more,you can do some of the physical things you used to do when you were together (not kissing or having sex… ) but you you don’t have to say anything that shows you are interested in getting back or anything like that.Avoid being romantic and play everything as cool as you can.
Once you do that,he can somehow feel/remind the time you were in bliss but he can’t have you like you were together.And that makes him want you more and more.
Hi!
I lost it a bit yesterday. Sorry.
We went out with everyone to go to see a film. I actually was seated near him. During the film we talked a bit joking about it( it was comedy) we had a great time and we laughed a lot. Sometimes he was the one to come near me to talk and sometimes I was the one to do some comments about the film and to do that we had to be really close to do not disturb.
Omg his smell was intoxicating.
I wanted him to touch me or grab my hand so much that it was almost hurting.After the film who ended late, we waited for two friends more and we went to go for a walk in the city. Nothing big happened just talking and joking as always.
Those two suggested that we go to the same party as the one from “that night”, so we made arrangments to go, but as always the others went home so we were just me,him and those two….like the other time.
In the end we didn’t go but we stay out talking a bit more, just a few more laugh and then we went our ways home. He asked if I was ok going home alone since I seemed pretty tired, but I live near so I just have to do like less than a km and I was driving so….yeah no problem thanks.
We said goodbye and he went in his car and I went in mine….and that’s it.I don’t know I think ecerything went well, but I can’t shake off the feeling that maybe something should have happen…? Or maybe not and everything was fine…
I don’t know I’m a bit off today and I feel a bit voulnerable…Oh god I really want him back… But I feel like I’m drowning
Or maybe I should have done or said something different to have more his attention…
Another thing that happened, when we were out after the cinema, when we were going back to our cars , the friend (the one which house was the one from “the night”) said to his girlfriend to go to us other for a bit, that he needed to have a “man talk” with my ex.
Now…I don’t know what they talked about, but I really wanna know what, especially if it’s about that night….because my ex didn’t say anything to him and I was the one to say what happened to him since it was his home and his beds….
i ‘m this worried for that….I want to know what they have talk about. i’m so worried and anxious
also a silly thing happened…
before we went out for a walk and after the cinema we stopped by his home because he needed to pick up something I don’t know.He came back with an apple because he was hungry. Ahahah we laugh a bit and I asked if it was a green one he said yes and I said yumm( those are my favourite).
ahaha he asked me if I wanted it ahahahah and I took it from him saying : but I don’t want to grab the food out of your mouth since you are hungry ahahhe said that it was fine he eat it a bit and then lent it to me to eat.
When we were in his car, I was in the back seat , back the driver (him) ( when we were together I was often in the front), I passed my arm between him and the window to let him have another bite if he wanted, he said it was fine and that he was already full.
When we went to pick another friend I asked him if he was sure about it and again lent him the apple, he took another bite and then I finished.just a silly thing that happened..
when I came back that night I sent him a text about something funny that happened in the film and he answered : 😀 😀 😀
Is it a good move if I ask him about his work out?
He is very egocentric and vain and he always asked me how he looked or if his muscle were visible ahahah
Now he is very in shape, and I’ve already said that to him and he was happy to hear it.
Now I’m too in great shape since he broke up with me, and I feel really good .
I wanted to ask him to …uhm I don’t know …maybe help me plan my new work out? He is not a personal trainer but he knows enough and I don’t want to spend 20€ , that’s what I’m planning to say to him.Like maybe when he can we could go to his gym that he built in his granny’s house and that he said he would let me see it because he’s very proud of it.
Maybe he could be the beginning of the idea of eorking out together
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