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In contact with my ex .. help plz

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  • December 10, 2014 at 8:27 pm #18435
    Mema
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    Thanks for the advice Maria .. my problem is that I don’t realise how stupid the reason is till I calm down .. or till he gets mad at me .. lol
    but the thing is that he knows how easily I can get upset when he’s busy while talking to me .. and he did it .. and I ask him politely to talk to him later .. he refused and he said that he needs me to be by his side now because he’s feeling down .. so I did .. and I didn’t ask where is he or what was he doing … he told me that by himself
    I’ll work on being a better person in this .. and I’ll try not to get upset over stupid things again ..
    I’ll update about what’s going on in my life later today ..
    and it’ll be great if you give me your advice ^_^
    thanx alot ^_^

    December 12, 2014 at 9:00 am #18733
    Mema
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    well .. yesterday was awful .. I was kind of busy .. but there was no connection at his city all the day .. so when he contacted me on whatsapp .. I talked to him even though I was busy .. because the connections will be available at his city only for one hour .. but after like 20 minutes .. he got busy with his best friend who lives now in another country .. so he told me he’ll talk to me later .. and I got really upset .. I left every thing to talk to him while he preferred talking to his best friend 🙁 .. so .. he told me that if he had to choose between me and his 2 best friends .. he’ll always choose them .. and it hurts alot .. I ended up saying good night and I hang up on him .. after a while .. I calmed down and tried to contact him .. there was no connection 🙁 .. idk .. he was really mean to me .. he told me I’m not his gf anymore so he doesn’t have to talk to me when he has free time ..
    I’m really upset now .. even though he gave me my good night kiss and my good morning message ..but I don’t like being in second place -_-
    I want to be his first interest in life .. and I’m willing to do a strict NC this week no ..
    but idk how to act when he’ll contact me … or even if 1 week is enough .. etc ..
    any advice about this will be appreciated ..

    December 12, 2014 at 9:50 am #18742
    Maria
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    Mema,

    “One of the most courageous decisions you will ever make is to finally let go of what is hurting you heart and soul” – Brigitte Nicole

    I wasted years in a relationship that never become what I wanted. I wish I had walked away from it way way sooner than I did. What a waste of my life that I will never get back 🙁

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