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  • #61694
    Karina.M
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    In 2 days he had a birthday .
    And I was trying to delete all about him . His phone number his viber and skype. ???A lot of things we had. And a lot of time we spent together . 11,5 years dating . One month brake and 1,5 month back and forth .
    So I was trying to delete his viber and at that moment my girlfriend from Italy stared calling me and I missed her call and by mistake called viber him ( my ex) instead of her . It was 1 sec call . And I was 99% sure that didn’t went thought. But … immediately he texed me; “I am at work now I can’t respond your call right now. ”
    I didn’t read this text so he see that it’s ascendent. Because once you read it’s say on viber : “seen.”It was at 10 am.
    At 11 pm I texed him ; ” I didn’t call apparently It’s happened probably through my phone inside of my purse or through my Apple Watch . Anyway , happy birthday and be happy.”
    He haven’t responded.
    I hope it’s a and of the story .
    It’s finished very bad and tragically. But it is how it is . Where is no hope anymore about this relationship , if it will ever work . There no hope he will ever back to me . And there is no hope he loves me .
    And a sad part is ,I still love him .

    #61697
    Karina.M
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    Today he texed me ; thank you .
    I didn’t saying anything . And I will not .Thats it. that’s the and of the story . I start my new life.

    #61704
    divinegirl
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    Wow, I’m so sorry to hear that. It really sucks! You need to delete him right away from your life. He can’t keep treating you that way. My ex was acting the exact same way with me. It never ends well. They just become rude and mean and you don’t need that.
    I’m in Budapest now with my friends and flirting with other guys. It feels good:) You should do the same in Italy.

    #61705
    Karina.M
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    It’s crazy how our story is similar ?
    Yes , delete him every where .
    I am not going text him and don’t even want respond if he texting , which he will never do.
    I Threw away almost all his gifts , toys and photos . I removed it all his contacts . Skype , emails , sign out his Instagram , viber, phone number.
    He does not deserve me.
    He simply turned into another man for the last two months . I am sure that he cheated on me. And still date other woman . This woman he met at the party . That’s why he treat me like that.
    He is just a cheater and lier .
    I pretty much sure he will regret soon about what he did and how he treated me . I think even more , I felt like he already do regretting . That’s why he responded on my ascendent call immidetly . The call did looked like mistake , no body call 1 sec. And why I would call him on viber if I am here in USA and I have his phone number . Doesn’t make sense . And also when I texted him happy birthday at 11 pm he was in viber sign in. He was waited all day my apology for the slap and happy birthday . I know he was , I sure , because he is never goes to viber , only if I am in my home country or I travel , so me can talk . I feel like he did realized already what he did with me it’s too much ,”he made the cup run over.”And I am complitly moved on and not going trying date him any more .
    Yes , defiantly I am going have fun in Italy. That’s the only thing I can do now . My heart is completely destroyed .
    This Saturday I am going to be there already .In Italy .
    Today one of my friend came to the city from New York. Going to go with him to one of the best restaurant in town .He pays .
    Will try to entertain myself as much as I can . ? And happy for you that you having fun there too.
    Love Budapest !? Have fun there girl as much as you can ! Make sure you flirting with all of them there lol.

    #61732
    divinegirl
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    Thanks! I got really drunk here last week with my friends and then I texted him! He replied immediately, asked me what I was up to. I replied like 10 hours later and we exchanged a few texts. I was doing really well not texting him first and ignoring him but alcohol does that to you:) Anyway, I don’t think it was a big deal. Let’s wait and see what happens and meanwhile enjoy life. You do the same.
    My bday is coming up too, I wonder if he remembers it. I’m sure he does but let’s see if I’ll get a happy bday message.

    #61868
    Karina.M
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    Happy birthday !

    #61869
    divinegirl
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    Thank you! It’s on Monday:)

    #61871
    Karina.M
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    anyway ??

    #62121
    Karina.M
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    Did he texted happy Birthday ?

    #62124
    divinegirl
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    No, just on Facebook…

    #62489
    Karina.M
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    I hope you celebrated you birthday well . And had good time .
    My trip was ok . My gilfriend really tryed her best to entertain me .
    She showed me around .
    I still love my ex. I was on 3/4 dates . Didn’t helped much . I still think about him every day . I can’t change anything yet. It’s a month since I v seen him last time . Still a lot of questions why ? Why I love him and he don’t , Why he forgot me and I didn’t forgot him. Why he lives his life and I don’t .
    I thought I will fine , but I am not . I have therapyst now ones in 2 weeks . I can’t handle it by myself …

    #62490
    divinegirl
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    Dear Karina,

    Yes, I celebrated my birthday with the people that love me: my parents. I sympathize with you 100%: two years later I still think about him and still wonder how he could just stop loving me like that. I’ve been with other guys too but that was a temporary relief. It’s good that you’re seeing a therapist, you should seek help. And most importantly, surround yourself with people that do love you. I wouldn’t make it without my parents and my friends. They remind me that I’m not a worthless piece of shit that nobody loves but a wonderful and beautiful person! It’s going to be hard but there is light at the end of the tunnel. I’ve been there and I’m much stronger now.

    #63280
    Karina.M
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    I have updates lol
    Two weeks ago my ex texted me after 1,5 month we didn’t socialized .Do you remember what happened between us last time ? I slapped him right at the bar .
    , (1,5 month non seen,non talked ) So he started texting me , calling me , ask me every day how I am ,have a good night , reporting what he done all day , sending pictures . We met , we talked , we said sorry each other . And Stared seen each other again . And he really seemed like he sorry. Guess what he did next ? On 3 th date we had sex and he disappeared .? Can you believe ? I tryed texting him ones , I texted like ; hello , how are you ? What’s new ? And he talk to me cold , responding my text in 2/3 hours. And never texting me if I didn’t texted him first . I been with him last time 8 days ago .So since then silence .
    I am in shock . He distriyed my life basically.??I just stared recovering . I just stared feel ok .And that’s what he did with me . I don’t know that should I do now ? Should I talk to him again ? Would I tell him I am not going deal with that kind of treatment ?

    #63281
    divinegirl
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    Fuck him. Delete his number, block on every social media. There’s no going back anymore. He will use you as a doormat if you keep letting him come back to you every time. Sorry to sound harsh but I’ve been thru all this.

    #63282
    Karina.M
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    You are right .

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