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  • March 8, 2015 at 9:51 pm #35085
    tighem
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    I guess he wants you back, but only on his terms. Sounds like he thinks it’s okay for him to instigate a relationship, but when you’re flirty he gets pissed. I would tread carefully – I’m not sure he’s in a place where he’s ready to have a relationship, even though he’s trying to. I could imagine my ex acting the same way if I brought up anything from the past.

    March 8, 2015 at 10:00 pm #35086
    Confused_Girl
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    I was flirty before and he liked it, I just went overboard that time

    March 9, 2015 at 10:55 am #35189
    Confused_Girl
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    How long is he going to be mad at me? 🙁

    March 9, 2015 at 11:03 am #35191
    kaila
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    I don’t think he will for long. Honestly I don’t think he should have even took what you said the wrong way

    March 9, 2015 at 11:07 am #35192
    Confused_Girl
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    Exactly, we’ve called each other sillier names. He’s still mad at me. I do feel bad for it, and I do agree that we aren’t at that point of calling each other super silly names yet, I just don’t want him mad at me anymore

    March 10, 2015 at 10:51 am #35431
    manishx
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    I agree. I did same mistake (just created a thread) that once my ex started becoming loving, I tried harder and started showing too much of affection. I think it was a huge mistake and we should move very slowly, more than our ex actually while being happier with whatever going on. In your case, and as I have gone through your story, it seems he would not be mad for more than a day or two once he understands your calling was out of love and fun. Let him take little time and you should stop worrying, you really came a long way and it should be best ahead, with being little careful and let him chase you or initiate things.

    Hope this could help, hey would you mind sharing your thoughts about my situation? https://ebpforums.com/boards/topic/need-help-for-second-nc-chances-and-duration/

    March 10, 2015 at 10:59 am #35438
    Confused_Girl
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    I did that Sunday and it’s already Tuesday. I did it cause I wanted to make him laugh, but he’s right, we aren’t at that point yet, but he snapchatted me stupid shit, I replied…none from him…

    March 10, 2015 at 11:10 am #35445
    manishx
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    I think best just to drop a text with connecting to his emotion, or try to think his true feeling like ‘Hey I understand you may have felt awkward because I felt loving you and saying something like old times, I wish it could have made you happier.’ and just stay in NC for a day or two more. He is probably into emotions and it happens. Surely it would be going well ahead for you, do not worry much.

    March 10, 2015 at 11:47 am #35457
    Confused_Girl
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    I’m rather scared to text him again, he was dick yesterday morning, I told him I was sorry and it didn’t do anything

    March 10, 2015 at 11:48 am #35459
    Confused_Girl
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    I wasn’t thinking when I said it, I just wanted to make him smile and I went too far

    March 10, 2015 at 11:55 am #35463
    manishx
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    I was suggesting texting to connect with his feelings and share your, as per non-violence communication book, but if you are scared then just wait to notice anything positive before sending, or send by end of week if he does not contact.

    March 10, 2015 at 11:56 am #35464
    Confused_Girl
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    Does what I said not sound good enough? lol

    March 10, 2015 at 11:58 am #35465
    manishx
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    Lol – totally agree.
    Would you mind answering a question, I guess you can share about a girl’s view on link I gave above. Appreciate your help. 🙂

    March 10, 2015 at 11:59 am #35466
    Confused_Girl
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    I mean, what I said, would that work? and I’ll try my best lol

    March 10, 2015 at 12:03 pm #35469
    manishx
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    Yes, it would work and worth the little patience. Just stay happy for yourself a while, I guess even he may reach out to you pretty soon.

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