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I thought that was a straight answer? He said Ya… does that mean yes, I don’t want you back or what?
I think you need to ask him if he means yes he does want you back, or if he is agreeing to what you said..
Maybe you can say something along the lines of….we were supposed to hang out but I didn’t hear from you?
We did talk the day we were supposed to hang out. and he was a dick that morning. If he didn’t want me, why was he sending me snapchats that day we were gonna hang out and yesterday?
I hate questions like the one I asked. I’m stupid and I can’t understand how the person is answering. I’m just stupid period
He was acting like a dick bc he knows he can. He knows he has you, and that’s the crap that pisses me off with guys. I personally think he wants to get back together, but he’s not making it easy on purpose. He definitely wants you! He’s resoonding to you. You are falling for his game. I wish I had some advice for you about how to not fall for his trap, but unfortunately we as women allow everything and anything to get to us no matter how hard we try. My only advice would be to be upfront with him. You can say something like, “I was really looking forward to seeing you the other day. Shall we try this again?” Something along those lines so that you aren’t focusing on the negative about him being rude or anything of that nature. Don’t worry, you’ll have him!
At least some can just straight up say that he wants me. I know in my heart that he does…he just likes to be an ass and get what he wants. I seem to remember I kind of taught him that that isn’t how the real world works, he just loved me so much for…well everything I did for him (helping wise, lost his job, completely broke)
Completely agree @tg7188! They know how to play on our vulnerability, and what to say or do to make us fall straight back into the trap.
Which is why I want to be a lot stronger than I am before embarking on that again. So that I don’t have to contend with stupid games!I’m trying to be nice…or I’ll end up being a bitch and just blurting out the truth. You should’ve heard me when we had our first huge fight. I just came out and said “We both know we want want each other,get your head out of your ass..” I don’t remember it all, but let’s just say I was a very pissed off girl. I had a raging headache, my feet were like, skinned to shit (IT was a special senior day, we went to an amusement park). So yeah, I think he saw the bitch I am that day. After I bitched him out, he just apologizing
I knew in my heart that he wants me back. He just got his head up his ass, perhaps the trying to be nice me isn’t efficient?
I asked him if he was serious about seeing each other this weekend. He asked why. I replied. No answer. He sends me a video of food cooking. He’s still playing games. Idk what to do besides not talk to him
Yes, he’s still playing games. But why put you through all the torture? Obviously, he knows he can, but at some point it has to stop. Maybe you can be direct and just say meet me here at whatever time on sat. See you then! That way, you put the ball in your court and you’re not asking him anything, you’re telling him! Try that. I mean, it might throw him off a little.
I’m just choosing to ignore him for a bit. He ot mad over soemthing silly and just a small mistake, I can’t stand when people get mad over little things
So he snapchats me but he won’t reply. He sent me one last night “I hate people” I asked him what’s wrong and he never replied. This morning, he sent a video from a movie we watched one time
So lately he’s been sending me sad stuff. Today he sent me a snapchat saying “Don’t text…no minutes” we talked some and then he told me to kik him. I didn’t…I was cleaning and I don’t have data on my phone. and then he sent another one saying “We could go for a drive later…” I told him he’d have to come get me cause my car is a piece of shit (it’s 15 years old) and he hasn’t replied
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