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So I’m on my way to bed. Got back from the casino with my dad, didn’t win anything but still had a good time. I just have one question, do you honestly think she is still thinking about me or misses me at all, it feels like she has forgot about me. I mean cause she hasn’t texted me at all, is she playing the same game? I know she needs time and space, but how long do you think until she decides to text me? I’m just really confused, and thinking maybe she doesn’t want anything to do with me, but she did say that she needs time and whatever to figure out what she’s going to do with getting a Job and applying for college, and she said to me that I can text her from “time to time” but what does that mean? I really miss her & wanna know if this can ever work 🙁
give her her time and space, I guess after no contact texting her as a friend, so I guess that will be the false friendship phase. she does miss you. give her and you time.
when you act like your their friend but “are doing” things that you use to do or to make them fall for you again.
So it’s day 8 of no contact, still nothing from the ex.. I’ve been praying every night, to give me strength & hope.. I won’t give up 🙁 but it still hurts everyday.. Off to work now..
Ok so I’ve been thinking all day, I have abit of a plan 22 days from now. One big problem was getting her schooling done (college). Long story I can tell you after I get off work but it would be a good idea for me to book a tour of the college that’s SHE wanted to go to, and I can take her, but is it bad to break no contact & contact her and ask her for a few mins of her time and see if she is free in about 3 weeks time cause I know we still need s
So I have even thinking all day today and I have devised alittle bit of a plan but wanna know if I can break no contact and still act casual about it. I wanna contact her and say “would you be free in about 3 weeks time, I wanna make something up to you but as friends only”. I wanna take her to that tour of that college she did want to go to and not the one I picked for her, it was one of the main problems in the end of the relationship we had, long story but I can tell you after work all about it. I think that’s when the “false friendship” comes in to hand. But I wanna know if I can do and break no contact and just say that to her & then continue no contact, advice please!!
go ahead and contact her and let her know. dont get your hopes up in case its not what your hoping for. then when your done tell her you both need your space and that you will contact her when your ready. then you finish no contact and then you talk to her again and do false frriendship. good luck
I’m not trying to get my hopes up but I do need some advice, in your own opinion do you think I should contact her and let her know or should I wait it out.
its all up to you, if you think that you can keep your composure when talking to her and have been for a while no contact then why not. else just wait a while before contacting.
Can you come up with a better way to ask it, like I know what I’m going to say in the beginning which is “hey sorry to bother you but do you have a few mins to talk”. But I don’t wanna tell her that I’m taking her to this tour so can you come up with a sentence I can use so it doesn’t seem to needy? To make her think “wow he’s taking this okay”. Anything good would be okay if you can, please!
And also I started watching the relationship rewind but going to watch the rest when I get home, is it any good? Worth to watch?
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