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Long story short it went good I think, I just asked how she was doing and what not and about her family, I’ll post the convo later but the last thing I said was…….. “Aww, poor thing.. I hope she gets better :(. Miss them both. Well give them
My best when you see them. Going to head back to work. If you want to continue our conversation later, let me know or I can text you, doesn’t matter. Was nice talking to you.” We were talking about her grandparents but she hasn’t said anything yet for abit, what should I do? Leave it or just text her in a weeks time?Okay so.. We have been talking abit. There’s a lot that has been said but were going to talk tomorrow because she went to bed.. Someone wanna describe what she can mean by being in a “weird place” right now, like meaning, someone’s in a “bad”place but she’s in a weird place.
idk but good luck with your talk. maybe it can mean shes confused? maybe you could ask her. I really hope everything works out for you, fingers crossed. 🙂 but dont get your hopes up in case it doesnt work out for you. :-/ keep us posted. 🙂
Okay so everything is going well, I’m just being here for her as of right now. How do I stay out of the friends zone, I mean how do I not get stuck in the friends zone, any advice?’
I’m so happy for you that everything is going very well. 🙂 keep up the great work. as they say hard work pays off. I’m not sure what to tell you about that but thats how you get her to be more comfortable with you, so you may need and end up finding yourself in the friend zone for a few. your doing great, keep it up. 🙂 also you may want to read relationship rewind as it talks about this sort of thing.
just checking in on you to see how your doing. 🙂 and if you dont mind would you tell me what you think about my recent post. 🙂 thanks
Sorry I haven’t been in in abit, hasn’t been going well and I’m
Back to NC for good this time. I asked her straight out if there was a chance for us down the road and she gave me a straight up answer saying she doesn’t think there is & she couldn’t go through it again but maybe we could be “the best of friends” down the road, so I guess you can say I fucked up. I’m very emotionally unstable right now so I’m just going back to NC, it’s for the best.. There’s nothing else I can do or say to her for her to change her mind about things.. On my second day of NC but I think the feeling of hope that I did have has vanished and don’t know how I can get it back or if it will ever come back… Any suggestions?..its ok, I was just checking in on you. this is the same reason I was trying to explain above to you about her reaction and reaching out to her. yes do no contact and improve yourself. regardless if you get her back or not, you’ll either end up with her and being a better person or you’ll end up an improved person. so its still a win win situation. I suggest you go to the gym to let out steam and find a hobby you would like to learn or do. also if you feel like you cant deal with it anymore try to see if you could find a therapist to go to see if they could help you with your problems. what does your mother say about your situation now? hope you feel better. stay strong and keep your head held high. 🙂
I told my mom everything that was said, and she told me to just leave it for now, and she thinks that one day that she will realize what she gave up & she just keeps telling me to pray every night and don’t give up hope.. I hope she’s right 🙁
yes just leave it for now and pray. do no contact for 30 days and try to better yourself. stay strong you can do this. 🙂
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