shinny717

hi chris,
m sush frm nepal.m 29 yrs old… actually it started after i joined college, whn i was abt 20 .. i had a bf.. we were in passionate relationship.. for abt 2 yrs..we were class mates.. he was a very sensitive n stubborn kind of person n a bit introvert.. and after abt 2 yrs he had some family problems bcz of which we couldnt meet so often .. and he also somehow gave hints tht he wanted to end it, as he doesnt hav time n having some health issues of his parents n family problems
. n one day i broke up with him… i was mentally prepared…n hoped he was too expecting this.. then we were out of contact and i lost interest on him.. then i met another person thru internet n i got married at the end of 2010. things were fine for abt a year.. but after that my marriage was bad.. i was not happy… as my husband would not give me time n had other priiorities.. n slowly i drifted apart n no physical relation too…
all day i used to be on fb n talk with frens. n used to go thru my ex’s profile… he was in south korea then…one day i jus decided to msg him.. it was his bday n i sent him fb msg.. just wishing him bday…. then after that we used to chat daily .. on fb and other apps….at first i told him that my marriage is doing so grt n all.. but after sometimes i told him that im not happy n the way my husband treats me… im jus staying like an agreement n formality…. he was shocked to hear that… so he adviced me to hav a talk to my husband n settle… n he also adviced me to go abroad n have a brk… and all…. but we didnt know all this was bringing us closer….. we were in love again after 7-8 yrs…… we started having video chats too… n we talked abt love n things…….then i thought of divorce….by then my husband was not staying with me… i lived alone…. after 2 mnths he came back to nepal… n we met… he stayed almost for a year….. i lived in the capital city.. he went to our common home town.. but now n then we met…. n even got physical many times……. we were in love……then recently 3 mnths back he returned back to korea……..n things were going well… now m divorced n im also back to my home town.i live here with my parents..i left my job there..i knew tht he is very sensitive person.. so u left the city.. he might have insecurities as my ex husband also lived in the same city… i was so happy thinking that my life will b better.. i was so much in love with this person .. we had plans after his return….
but since 2 mnths… he has been fighting abt my sex in married life….. he was a virgin n i was not. . he keeps over thinking n has ruined the situation…
…… it had become serious… he fought me.. asked my details……n make me feel so bad.. he said he cannot forget that fact of me having sex wid another person before him..but i have told him several times that its not that i cheated on him… i had told him everything before getting in this relation.he was alsi ok with thiss.. i had not had sex with anybone since last 2.5 yrs.. except him…its my past.. but he finally . . he broke up wid me ysterday . he says he doesnt feel for me or love me any more… he doesnt care…
we were off n on… n broke n patched up several time…. but yesterday it was final.. i have tried everything… but he says.. its hurting fact n he cant overcome…..i really love him…. i have missed him for all these years.. pls help me…. i feel so broken…. we cant even meet.. he will come only after a year… pls help
me.. what can i do to convince him?????