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@Ly88 hey! Cheer up and don’t bother with what he is up to. Forget about him and do your nc. Finish your nc and then come back to being frustrated and freaking out. 😀 kidding..the thing is: you won’t be frustrated nor freaked out. You’ll be much calmer and okay after a couple of weeks. Go for another couple of weeks and concentrate on other things on your life. He might even reaches out for you, mine did. Only the first 2 weeks of nc was hard on me.
Hey, no contact is not killing you, it’s actually your best choice now. I know you feel now like crying, wanting him in your arms talking to you, but believe me: don’t make a fool of yourself. If you make nc for at least 2 weeks, you’ll start feeling calmer and see things in perspective.. and honestly that’s the thing that matter. YOU DIDN’T DO ANY WRONG. Don’t do wrong by chasing and being clingy while he said he needs space!
believe me, I’ve been there, a lot of us were, nc will calm you down and do you good. Just don’t concentrate only on “I can’t contact him!” But try to concentrate on yourself and the pain you’re experiencing. You did nothing wrong.
