Forum Replies Created
-
Posts
-
thank you.. at least your ex talks to you..My ex just ignores me.. I guess it’s more difficult with him cause I’ve been wanting him for so many years,I thought I could never have him and when I did I was so stupid to lose him..So that’s killing me. I do as you say duma, but I just can’t feel complete.I just pray each day for something good to happen. I have no idea what to do..
I have tried this in the past but I really can’t get any happy, just more anxious.. :/ and besides that that’s the only thing I have to show that I’m ok,having fun and so on.. I just wonder how long should I wait?
Thank you a.z. and Dara..
I don’t stalk him, but when i log in on fb i can’t help what I’ll see in my page! I have to talk to him 2 months now, I’m on holidays so I have some company to keep my mind occupied but i have no idea what to do next! I don’t want to ask him again about the money, I don’t like being annoying like that even if I’m right to do so..
I just wonder..how long should i wait??Yes, but some of them lie to your face and that annoys me so much.. I hope it’s true what you say but still i find it difficult. I mean I don’t want to trust anyone!
Yesterday i saw he changed his fb pic and his photo is so similar to mine! i don’t get it! If he does it on purpose or no..but i try not to use fb much anyway
what do you think?self confidence maybe, but what can you do when you can’t beleive anyone’s words anymore??
I know it can happen…to other people..I have so much bad luck I don’t expect anything..even if I manage those things..I don’t beleive there’s a chance the plan would work for me if he’s still with his gf..I’ve already tried those things twice in a year..
Thanks for the help, I really understand what is good for me and what you’re saying but it’s difficult to control my feelings when he’s the one I was dreaming about since the first time i saw him(and that’s 10 years ago).
How can you go on a date with someone you don’t like and you’re not interested with?It would be very akward.. :/Thank you a.z. and Dara.. I understand what you’re saying, I’m just afraid that even she’s a rebound and even if they break up, he wont want me..It’s been 2 months since we talked last time.. As for the dates..I’ve been trying that since a long time..I actually had been proposed by more that 5 guys, but i didn’t manage to go on a date with any of them! in fact most of them don’t talk to me anymore! And i can see that none of them want a relantionship, but sth else that i’m not willing to give. i’m not that kind of girl and also it’s so difficult for me to date someone if i’m not even interested in him..
Sometimes I really feel like somebody has cursed meHello there,
Don’t unfriend him or anything..and if he does don’t do anything at all. Just ignore him all the 30 days of NC whatever he posts, don’t react! Try to post nice things, photos of you, alone or with friends, maybe even other guys but be careful..You don’t want him get the wrong message.Hopefully if you do this, he might change his mind, think you changed.But you have also to work yourself.be calm, get in shape and think about your first text, if you still want him of course! if he cares about you ignoring him will do the work almost always so don’t worry too much! i’m in a similar,but worse, position so i hope everything will be ok with you!But I beleive having a gf and going holidays with her is moving on, no?? How can I compare my little time with him with this??
Ι do but it’s just not the same..Even if I go out and have fun,I’ll always think what he might be doing..I don’t want to think that but i can’t help it..And it frustrates me..that i did so much but nothing worked for me..I really would like to make things work for me, but the only i can do is post on fb and hope he will see my posts..a.z. I beleive that’s the best but still I’m a bit worried sit and not doing anything will make him think that I no longer care about him at all..
Lovehim,
Thanks for the comment!But i’m not sure she’s a rebound..I broke up with my ex at the end of february and I learned he has a gf on June.he said he was with her two months,even though I’m not sure that’s true cause we talked back then.. And it frustrates me that he says he can’t give me the money, but went on holidays with his gf!Hi a.z. and thank you!
I’m just afraid cause they’re already so close, he’s done much more things with her than what we had as it seems and I’m afraid he’s lost every interest on me.. As for the changes i have lost a lot of weight, not that i was fat but now I’m on my normal weight,maybe even less than that..I’ve also a nose ring,changed my hair a bit..I try to upload nice songs,pictures of me and check in when i’m out…but i’m not sure it’s working.It’s almost 2 months now..
Do you beleive I should just wait until he contacts, if he ever does??Thanks for the reply Kevin! The problem is I’m not sure she’s a rebound, if you read my story, you might see why..
Also I try not to and I didn’t stalk him, but it appeared in my front page so I saw it anyway! Also I have this thing that I need to know what’s happening everytime…
What do you suggest I can do? I don’t see talking helping me at all!I think it was good. wait a couple of days and try to be more in control of the conversation (a.k.a let him do the most talking if you you can). If he doeasn’t say anything about hanging out don’t mention it again for a while..just talk and win his confidense!
I started a new thread so if you’d read it I’d be glad! best of luck!
