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Hi Charlie
I’m sorry to hear that buddy keep your head up, just to keep you updated on my side I have got back with my ex so all is well sorry about your news buddy
Hi charlie
It sounds really complex buddy, I think from an outsiders view she is very confused and does not know what to do at all.
She’s very hot and cold from reading what you put but then again if she really didn’t want anything what is she doing kissing you and holding your hand I think deep down she wants you just a bit confused at the mo,
I would give her some space maybe wait a couple of days before talking to her again. Hope your ok man
Yh it was about a month ago so I will defiantly be there for her no matter what, I just thought us loosing a baby together would make us stronger as we are both going through it but I guess not.
We will see what happens.
What’s the situation on your end bud?
We were great together but only recently we lost a baby together and it deteriated from there really that’s what I think the cause was.
She was so upset and wouldn’t talk to me then after a week of not talking to me she left me, I mean she wasn’t the only one upset but her hormones must of played a part a guess but that’s the past only the future now.
I think I will wait until I know what to do and help her through this at the mo.
No we are not back together buddy.
Her mum pulled me to one side on Friday and said that she has been speaking to her and that all she keeps saying is that she loves me and wants me back but is too stubborn to make the first move so I might just ask her back out and see what happens.
But then again I’m not sure if she’s ready for that at the minute.
Yh she is having counselling I believe with work, I did mention going back to the doctors and I will go with her and she said ok so she is booking an appointment and letting me know buddy.
Thanks for the reply anyway man I know its a strange convo.
Yo charlie,
How have you been? I have a recent development and I want to ask your advice, so where do I start,
Well my ex invited me round her house on Friday she askedme to come to her mothers house for dinner with her which I agreed too, we both had a great time and so did her family her mum said she was an idiot letting me go lol don’t know how to take that really.
So we got back and she said would I like to come in so I agreed she sat down and said she has to talk to me about something so she sat me down and gave me a whiskey which I thought was odd as she never offers me a strong drink really.
She sat down and pulled up her sleeves and told me she has been cutting herself to say the least I was goddam shocked I asked her what on earth is she doing I kinda flipped I guess. I asked her after I went outside for a bit to get my act together has she told anyone she said I’m the only person who she trusts and speaks to about everything.
I guess that’s a good thing. I need to know what I can do to help her like why she is doing this I love this women but don’t want her to hurt herself over us breaking up so what can I do to help her I have reassured her that I will always be here for her if she needs anything but I’m not sure what else to do you got any advice buddy?
I still want her back but if she is that depressed I would rather us be separated than her doing this to herself.
Wow Charlie it’s a very powerful song,
I think it’s a good idea my friend what have you got to loose I’m sure that will bring back all the good memories you had together.
Yh I’m just going to see what happens I want her to tell me face to face instead of a text message and then we would need to sit down and talk and definitely decide if us getting back together is what we both want so let’s see what happens
How’s things your end buddy any different?
Hey guys hope you are both well,
Sorry for my absence been busy on other things.
So I will give you both a quick update things are going ok I guess, so what’s happening is that she is texting me and I’m texting back and stuff she asked me the other day if I wanted to meet up I said Yh ok after I said that she immediately changed her mind I was like wtf you know.
I think deep down I’m being used as a beauty call don’t get me wrong I love the women and would do anything for her but I’m not going to be messed around so I sent her a text saying that if she wants to be with me then be with me not mess me around as friends, the reply I got was really odd I thought she was going to bite my head but she sent back saying I’m so sorry I love you and I don’t want to be friends anymore I want you back which is a bit odd as she was Sooo off the other day??
Strange right so I haven’t spoken about it since and haven’t replied to her texts as I wanna make sure she is gen as I don’t wanna get no then 2 weeks later she regrets it so I’m gunna wait a bit until we talk in person I think.
Hey guys hope you are both well,
Sorry for my absence been busy on other things.
So I will give you both a quick update things are going ok I guess, so what’s happening is that she is texting me and I’m texting back and stuff she asked me the other day if I wanted to meet up I said Yh ok after I said that she immediately changed her mind I was like wtf you know.
I think deep down I’m being used as a beauty call don’t get me wrong I love the women and would do anything for her but I’m not going to be messed around so I sent her a text saying that if she wants to be with me then be with me not mess me around as friends, the reply I got was really odd I thought she was going to bite my head but she sent back saying I’m so sorry I love you and I don’t want to be friends anymore I want you back which is a bit odd as she was Sooo off the other day??
Strange right so I haven’t spoken about it since and haven’t replied to her texts as I wanna make sure she is gen as I don’t wanna get no then 2 weeks later she regrets it so I’m gunna wait a bit until we talk in person I think.
Alright buddy
It sounds to me that she is playing you as a fool bud, taking advantage of smart and caring guy.
If it was me I would text back and say that’s the last time you cancel on me and then just ignore her but that’s just me buddy.
I know it will hurt but I think you need to keep yourself busy and just try and move on you know.
And just think you kinda knew this was coming right so know you can concentrate on yourself man get your mates round have a lads night or something and chill.
Friends and family are the most important things in life remember that buddy
