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I did that and only established contact 3-4 times in two weeks. I can establish it again ? And does that sound like anger or indufference( pretty much I’m trying to see if she still care)
So today her b day I’m gonna go with your plan and send the video along with a happy b day and keep it at that. I been very chill as of late and realized all this unnecessary she childish and gone need to grow up. Also as I said my ex came back even if it was a year so that makes be believe they all do eventually. She chasing me hard and want me back after three days and she told me if I just left her alone after break up she would’ve came back lol. Also she got her hurt broke so I think that adds to it sometimes ppl have to experience bad to know when they have good. Me being 21 I expected it. Now it’s choosing who I want that’ll be hard lol I could do both jk. Think my current ex will like me sending video
I still haven’t talked to her after we texted and I ended the convo fast. I was just chillin and you know how friends be all negative and bitter around you lol I’m like damn especially guys. I try saying same things like she still care if the day she don’t wanna mess with me she text me first but they like she using you and you a back up plan. I’m like let me play my role because even if there is a new guy she obviously not that close to him to open up to him. I was just in my feelings from all this negativity lol so after her b day and I send video go nc ? I already did a Minh remember so I go another month? Btw my old ex gf hit me up and we talked a lil weird how after a year she talk to me now lol. So ignore the he irritating or why won’t he leave me alone and stop trying to be with me talk? Everyone saying that’s how she feel and just take it because in this month and week period we talk twice so idk how I’m thirsty or on her head she doing the most lol. I know she knows she has me and she has the power again because I didn’t end the phone convo quick like I was suppose to but is there a way to turn it around ? And you saying it’s not as bad as they make it because I been a good dude to her whole time except the beginning I was kinda bad but that doesn’t matter lol.
I’m thinking bout giving up. She told her cousin I’m irritating and why the hell I’m trying to talk to her and she done and will never talk to me again. I haven’t talked to her since that day. Everyone say walk Away but I don’t want to but look how she acting. And they say the texts is all a game but the harsh stuff ” I’m done , I’m not attracted to you, I lost interest” is her saying she done. It’s been a month and she still like this. Is this normal after coming back from nc or no
Sorry in ranting again lol but after reading it I messed up but it’s not that bad because I remained calm even when she was being a d*** and I established a friendship. Than next day she texted me at 3:30 in morning talking bout a interview at a dream job and help with a simple task. I than replied but very slow and plain while she responded quick. I think it’s manageable now just contact her Tuesday on her b day. Is it to much to send a funny video of her when she was trying to dance and I say turn up or is that funny and to my advantage because of the memory?
Ok and what about the she not attracted to me or I’m not her type anymore talk ? The guy name she mentioned is the opposite of me when it comes to skin completion and looks. Was that just talk or she really interested in another type(she said a guy that look like me “same skin tone” try to talk to her and she said she don’t mess with those kinds anymore to him” as childish as that sound lol
And base off rewind do you think I’m in drift or death door. Her controlling mom and insecure loser friends don’t like me anymore lol
Noooo not friend zoned for life lol as a female what would you suggest I do ? I’m playing a role to get her cool and see me positive. Today she kept texting I kept it short and simple. She got the job and said thanks for helping I said congratulations glad I could help(pretending I didn’t want her to talk about it) and she responded yup thanks again. Idk if that was her trying to get me to talk more or was a surprise reaction I didn’t continue talking. Was that smart to respond so nonchalant? I read most of it and it’s kind if confusing just like this girl I’m dealing with lol. Monday she thinks I’m unattractive and etc Wednesday she telling me about a interview and asking for simple help etc. it’s ass backwards because when I’m done I’m done. Will I stay a friend if I continue being cool and talking to her 1-3 time a week or does that work to my favor?
Am I friend zoned lol like super friend zoned …wouldn’t a girl loose all respect and interest if there ex become there friend. As I stated before she said she will date or mess around idk if that’s true or was to hurt me and get a reaction idk. But she asking me for help I’m a friend lol
She sent me this last night word from word “So you should know I got a job offer for a vets office. I interview tomorrow. They asked for vet techs but I told them I’m not certified they said they’ll find a position for me since my plug told them my passion for animals is one in a million. Buuut yeah interview tomorrow morning. In the meantime I know your pretty good when it comes to research but I’ve been trying to call my recruiter for a week now. Left two msgs he’s not calling me back. Is there another Chicago office near by cuz I called the number off the website,….no help.”
I’m just naturally like that a joker or just really chill lol I never try to be sad causes wrinkles and stuff. She moved out of state I’m in michigan she in illonois so I can’t meet her at all. The text we had really lowered me again I feel and were disrespectful hurtful and showed she still has the power. She really playing a game also I wish I could screenshot them on here but yes she was still texting fast and I kept it positive and became a friend as much as I hate it. She said she will date and mess around and honestly that posses me off and idk how I remained cool lol. You say hit her up but a lot of ppl say give her a lot more time because it’s to much games and drama being played and if she want me she’ll come back. I thought we could be mature but nope not in real life lol. She treating me like I cheated or hit her and even though I had my flaws I treated her like a princess to the best of my abilities. But she displaying disrespect hate and the willingness to move on without even talking or trying to work it out. My cousin gf said she still a kid that don’t know what she wants and need to find herself. But why push me away when she said I taught her to love herself what love was In general and gave her self confidence? Isn’t that backwards I’m her only good bf while I there’s hurt her and I’m getting dogged out lol wth. I honestly start to feel like f her and let her come to me I can get any girl I want I just love her so much it hurts I’m being treated like this. My girl bf said I was suppose to be her superman and sweep her off her feet to take care of her that’s why she hate me. I’m also being told even if she hates or shows anger that’s still emotions and shows she still care because if she didn’t she would respond and would be indifferent is this true? What’s next more space or contact ig?
