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Hey guys,
What do you put in such a hand-written letter? Should it be short, or lay it all out there?
Thanks,
R
a.z (et al) – hope you’re all doing well.
I am almost a week into my NC period, and it will be over a week when my ex comes by my building later this week to pick up the last batch of her mail. I’m trying quite hard to keep to the NC, but I was thinking that perhaps I should prepare a letter from me to her and include it for her to find.
Thoughts?
If I do write a letter, what should I include in it?
Many thanks,
RI’m [only] 5 days into my NC, and my mind is going nuts, too. She broke up with me about 5 weeks ago, and I spent nearly a month trying to get her back incessantly. I was very weak. I’m trying to give both her and I some space, and we’ll see what happens when I eventually end up reaching out to her again, which I most definitely will (30 days seems so long…)
I know she’s coming by my place later this week to pick up her mail from the doorman, and I’m trying really hard to not put a [handwritten] letter of my own in there for her to read… or should I? what do you think?
Girly – continue to be strong and focus on YOURSELF. How are you keeping yourself busy outside of work etc?
I just have a few other questions:
How long have you been broken up with this guy for now (in total)?
Initially after the breakup, did you act needy/beg for him? If so, for how long?
What was the longest period you followed the NC rule?Thanks,
R
I’m in the EXACT same boat Adam23… it ain’t easy, and I am only a few days into my 30-day NC period… this after accidentally pleading with her for 3 weeks after the breakup to try getting back together.
Keep me posted on your progress…
Hi all – I wish I had found this site earlier, or had someone in a similar situation to vent to/with.
My situation: we were together for almost 2 years, living together for a year. Things were noticeably deteriorating for about 2 months before she came home (3 weeks ago) and said she couldn’t be with me anymore. Neither of us communicated too well for a while, which was frustrating for me since I know how critical communication is, and for some reason I kept my feelings to myself far too long and far too often.
I love her still. I was convinced she was my forever, even though we had little disagreements here and there.
I wasn’t happy with myself as a person for the 2 months before she suddenly came home and called it quits – 3 weeks ago. Since then I’ve been trying to communicate and work it out with her, but it was completely one-way, and she was unsure and still in love with me up until last week – she said “it was fading”. And then I found this site.
-I wish I found this site 3 weeks ago.
-I’ve instituted the NC rule for about a week now.
-I need some advice…**She’s coming by my building next week to pick up her mail… do I stay away or sneak in a letter, or something, into her pile of mail?
