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Update on the situation.
All moved in. A few weeks into the job. Been playing soccer every week with a new group of friends to get back in shape. Enjoying my time.
Contacted her for the first time in a month and a half yesterday to ask about furniture ideas and color schemes as I’m not very good at that stuff. We talked on Skype and she was gracious about it and was legitimately helpful. Then we had a “catch up” conversation and she was surprised and happy at how I turned things around for myself in just one month. She’s been going out with friends, camping, BBQ, etc. but she’s worn out over that stuff. She turned her phone messenger back on and we’ve been texting back and forth a bit after our Skype convo and she asked to add me if I had snapchat which she got because “friends peer pressured” her to it (and her best friends’ list had some guys in there). The thing is… I don’t know where to go from here. I’ve been improving myself and am in top shape now but the only contact we have is through text or Skype since she lives in Canada. Before we made trips to see each other because we were in a relationship but now… I don’t know how to escalate. And I felt like I was emotionally sound but after our Skype convo (which went well) she said, well, nice to chat again and her sounding so detached killed me on the inside. Where do I go from here? I’ve reestablish connection and I’m enjoying life and she knows I’m enjoying life but I at a loss as what to do.
I thought I had everything planned out and exactly what to do but… I need help.

Thank you very much. I will keep doing my thing and see how it pans out. Already moved into apartment and signed up for soccer and tennis leagues and having a great time so far. I will check back and let you guys know how it goes.
Have a great weekend.