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  • in reply to: Therapist Says I should break NC?! #4901
    mm888
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    I’m just scared honestly, I’m scared he won’t answer or just won’t take me back. I’m so scared. I want him back so badly. We had so much going for us. It’s not like something really bad happened ya know? Do you think I have a chance?

    in reply to: Sleeping With A Friend #4237
    mm888
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    Hey!

    I feel similar in that I’m stuck between Drift and Hell’s door (I read rewind too haha) It’s so hard to stay strong. We agreed to do 40 days and it is a LONG time. I have to say I have 13 days left and I am feeling better! You suddenly realize not to torture yourself and just enjoy being you. You sound like a good guy who sadly did some immature things in the beginning. I did too. We’re all human and we all make mistakes. Soon she’ll realize that anger is actually because she misses you. But first you have to allow her to miss you. If you’re in contact with her, she can’t miss you! Remind yourself of that every time you go to call or text her. If she brings up the other guy tell her you’re happy for her. I know that sounds like the opposite of what you want to say but it will be a shock to her and get her thinking about you!

    Stay Strong!

    in reply to: My ex really wants to argue #4234
    mm888
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    Hey!

    I say you need to start the NC asap. And stick to it. The only way she is going to miss you is if she doesn’t have you. She probably is just in a rebound relationship looking for some comfort right now. You need to show her your love for her by leaving her be. Give her what she wants for now. You’ll see in the 30 days you’ll be feeling better and so we’ll she. Take this time for yourself!

    Good luck!

    in reply to: Dear Edward, #4123
    mm888
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    Hi AZ

    I think you give really good insight and I was wondering if you could read my story? I’d appreciate it

    Thanks!!!

    in reply to: It's been a month, calmly made contact #4069
    mm888
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    That is SO exciting!!!!!!! Let us know how it goes!

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