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Hi Baseballguy1996, how are you?
It’s been awhile since we spoked here…
Man, sometimes i have a felling like you about my ex. Sometimes I think of my ex too and soon I throw those memories out of my head. It’s been a year since I finished my courtship and today it does not make sense to think about that past. Time is the best remedy and she’s probably happy with someone.
After the last time we talked here, I tried to change the routine, changed my job, met new people and today I am in a new relationship with a very nice person.When my ex broke up with me, I thought the problem was me. It was my fault. But today I see that people are different and I am in a relationship that has more respect and maturity.
I’m writing here because I remembered you and so I want you to keep trying.
You are very young yet and you will have many many opportunities ahead.
Take care
Hey Fishinthesky! thank you.
i don’t know if she’s seeing someone else…
We will follow this way from now on! And we’ll see if our ex will come talk to us sometime!
The pain at this point is lower, but I know I still love my ex!
Best
Hello guys!
Then I sent the email! Actually sent on Monday and so far unanswered!
I was already expecting that! saw many similar stories here and concludes that this is normal for our ex.
I sent the email securely and without asking to return with dating! I said she’s an amazing woman and have a great future ahead and also that I messed up trying to do everything right! at the end I invited her to a cafe where we could let the good things between us.
I think when we have no answer is a sign to give up? Because I do not know how I could get in touch otherwise. I’ve already sent flowers and cards after 20 days of the breakup and sent a letter and now the e-mail!
My ex girlfriend is not even talking to her friend who introduced us! This means that she is very mad at the whole thing and is acting in the same way that he acted with her ex! I know I need do nc until my ex contact! And I know that this will hardly happen!
Does anyone have any advice?
Thanks!
Thanks Hocktyr! I hope you get well!
I know it’s hard but try to take things that remind your ex from your room!
Every day, I undone the things that remind me of my ex! The last thing I have and that reminds me of her, were the conversations on PSN! I have to delete it when I see it, makes me very badly!
Try This friend!
Hey guys! how are you?
I know well what you are going through! I am in the same boat.
today I completed 45 days without contact with my ex! today I sent an email to her tried to make things at least friendly between us and saying how much I love her.
I know she will not answer just like you! I asked God but every day I lose more hope!
I don’t know what to expect
Best
Hey BaseballGay,
I’m happy Knowing you are ok!
For me a month and five days without contact, I still have in mind to send one last email to my ex, more as a way of farewell and for me to put an end.
Every day I have more longing and less pain. As if someone who died and you know that no return!
Today I think the horrible things she told me in one of our conversations and see how she is immature and it shows me that it may not be chosen one.
I hope you get well too, and remember when You do not have anything to lose, you have everything to gain.
best
Hey Fishthesky,
The end of my dating was June too! One day after our one year anniversary! I think she was already thinking about it since the beginning of the year! when we fight and stayed one week apart!
It is a very difficult situation that we are all going! I know everyone here are very strong! more than we could imagine!
I hope we can get our ex back
🙂
hey @Fishthesky.
I’m from Brazil!
You had already made nc before? I think your decision 30 + 15 Is very good!
but if she does not answer in these 15 days may not be too early to give up?
to be honest, I am in doubt if after I send the letter and if she does not respond. I don’t know if I’ll try again too!
that’s what I’m looking for here! more hope!
No @FishingTheSky …
I was commenting with others here in the forum about sending the letter and some told me that maybe wait a few more days would be good.
I do not know if you remember, but the last time I talked to my ex girlfriend she was very angry 🙁 At the time I kinda had sent a card to her more or less following the idea of the letter from Kevin, why this new letter will have to be different.
Anyway therapy is helping me a lot. Someone else here doing therapy?
I think I’ll do 45 days in NC.
Hello guys,
Sorry to intrude,
I always end up reading the stories of you. I see you all are evolving a lot and I have you as an example 🙂
@ Amy111 I feel the same as you, these were my eight weeks most difficult of my life, I never imagined it would be so bad.
But here, somehow we found the strength to continue strong.
Thanks 🙂
Hey Horckytr,
Be strong friend, it is being difficult for all of us here! So let us help 🙂
I feel the same as you, I feel that the most important thing for me I lost. I have no desire to do anything, everything reminds me of my ex. These days I was washing the car and I could not because I remembered when she helped me do that.
We’ll get through this friend, do not be discouraged, try to spend your time. I’m trying to learn to play the harmonica by youtube.
Best.
Hey Kodak and FishingtheSky, How are you?
@FishingtheSky Your family is well??@Kodak, My birthday was on August 3 and also did not get wishe from my ex. I thought a lot of the reasons that even made here in the forum search for old posts with this issue ….
I think it can be for these reasons:
1- She just thinks we’re very angry after the end and want to avoid stress;
2 She is trying to put the idea in place yet to have courage to speak with us;
3- It is really moving forward.I do not think we stay cool thinking about it will only make worse for us.
The Truth Kodak is that we here in this forum, not stop thinking about our ex, and they do everything not to remember us. I feel that my ex wants to forget really! I still find myself thinking of us back into a relationship, I think of the conversations we had, the mistakes I made, but I know she must be doing her lessons, meeting new guys and do not want to remember me ….
I finish my 30 days of NC Sunday, and got some versions of letters to send, but no longer know if I should send. And if I send, I will use a card that has a farewell tone.
I know my sessions in psychologists are helping me to think things.
Thanks Patricia and FishtheSky.
My ex also began to think that the relationship we had was in any way abusive. I do not know as well, but a mutual friend told me that she was entering sites, forums and searching videos on youtube with this theme.
I ended up reading and watching also to see if I really was this monster she drew, and I’m not! I know some of my actions as jokes I did or my way of being cold may have given the impression that was treating her bad, but being a abuser I’m not!
I’m going in therapy and I remember that my ex always said for me to seek this kind of help. I do not know if I should also address who have sought help and trying to understand these issues in abusive relationships etc …
What do you think?
Thank you.
