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  • in reply to: Made a mistake #36922
    minniexx
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    @kd1988 seems like you have made great progress in such little amount of time! You’re right, maybe give it a bit of time too. Hopefully he will be the one to suggest it!

    in reply to: Should dating during NC be brought up #36919
    minniexx
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    Thanks @kd1988 I was thinking the same. If he asks how should I address it? Tell him it’s none of his business and that if we want to work out we need a new slate?

    Any other peoples help would be much appreciated as well, I will reply your threads πŸ™‚

    in reply to: Made a mistake #36918
    minniexx
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    @kd1988 maybe you can just hangout with him first, make him fall in love with the girl he first fell in love with. Be happy! I think it might be too early to start talking about the relationship though and it might put a lot of stress between the two of you. Also don’t make yourself too available πŸ™‚ you want him to think it’s his idea to get back together. Keep the letter on the back burner for the next little while. If you don’t feel like you can control your emotions/composure around him then definitely don’t go see him until you’re ready though!

    in reply to: Made a mistake #36915
    minniexx
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    Thanks @kd1988 for the reply on my thread. I think that you might be over thinking it. My ex msged me and I know there are feelings there still. Our conversation was very strained too. It is just weird talking when you haven’t talked in a while! Have a little hope!! How long did you do NC for?

    in reply to: Wrote her a letter..her response was indifferent #36913
    minniexx
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    I think that he is just a rebound. Give her some time and work on yourself. Definitely do no contact. Sometimes girls go through a phase after a long term relationship and will realise they were dumb. Hope this helped, please check my thread and help me too. Also, dont forget to update us on what’s going on.

    in reply to: Should dating during NC be brought up #36912
    minniexx
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    Any help would be appreciated, thanks in advance.

    minniexx
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    Hi,

    It’s fresh right now so he will feel a rollercoaster of emotions. I think that he will soon start to miss you. Keep up with no contact! πŸ™‚ please check my thread as well thanks. And do update what has happened since you posted

    in reply to: 1 month too long after break up for NC? #36581
    minniexx
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    Hi Funnygirl123,

    It’s never too late. He needs to see that you can be independent. I’m proud of you that you are taking initiative! Stay strong!! πŸ™‚

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