Boards No Contact Rule Please Help ! I think I lost him now ! No contact pissed him off.

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    gemi
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    Okay we were in the patching up stage, when he had chosen to be with me as he could not bear the thought of not talking to me. but I felt he was taking me for granted again and it was back to before where I am the one who got left out always. he said he loved me, a number of times recently but i seemed to be at the bottom of his priority list always ! In the end I told him if he had to change for me, he had to do it now, or to break it off with me. he chose to break off. today i had tickets to a competition where his band was playing. he gave me a ring before the competition and dropped msgs. I didn’t respond. He then tried speaking to me three times during the event and i politely told him i didnt want to talk to him. At last he got really pissed, and told me fine if you dont wish to come. he left then with a little food off a vending machine. later when i was getting a sandwich off a stall i saw he had come back and standing behind me.he didnt look at me just looked angry and left soon. i think this is it, isnt it? he is given up on me and never coming back. i feel really upset.

    #36458
    gemi
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    Any help from anyone would help very very much? does refusing them during no contact push them away? arent they supposed to miss you? the guy instead got angry with me.

    #36911
    minniexx
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    Hi,

    It’s fresh right now so he will feel a rollercoaster of emotions. I think that he will soon start to miss you. Keep up with no contact! 🙂 please check my thread as well thanks. And do update what has happened since you posted

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