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Just feel so lost. I thought things was slowly going good again since he was taking so much contact and saying he wants me and wants us to be together. I just feel dum. He slept her from Thursday to Friday. After he went home on Friday he called me an hour after he got home. I didn’t hear the phone so I wasn’t able to call him back until an hour later. He had picked up his son then and was kind of busy. He had called me to just chat when he was driving to pick up his son but I didn’t hear the phone. We then talked again on the phone about an hour later and he said that he would try to get away one night this week or we would have Saturday to look forward. We wore talking about doing something on Saturday. So your suggestion is to take a step back and let him initiate all contact? Should I be worried about this girl he has been hooking up with when we wore broken up?
I just really thought things was on the right track since things has been so good lately. I just can’t help to think that something has changed. Trying to calm myself down with saying I am overreacting, but I don’t know. I am so scared that he might have changed his mind and have second thoughts. I really don’t want to loose him. The second time he called today when he said he was sorry for getting grumpy, things was as it usually is. And he seemed to like the text I had sent him, because he was talking about that. I don’t know. We have been through so much together and we have this special connection. He had been fooling around with this girl when we wore broken up, but as he has said he doesn’t have any feelings for her or anything like that. So I have not been thinking that he might go back to her as him and I have have so much history. But these thoughts have been poping up in my mind since Friday night. Really don’t know what to do or think.
He has been chasing me a lot the last weeks. How do I get him to do that again? It just seems like something has changed. Don’t know if this is because he’s busy with his son or what it is. I really do not want to loose him again now. If I take a step back now will that work for me and for our relationship? Or will he just run back to this so called rebound girl?
He is the one who has initiated almost all of the contact we have have had the last weeks. He has called every day, sometimes several times. And he has texted and stuff like that. He was also the one contacting me when we wore broken up and showing up at my house. I just feel that something has changed wen I suddenly hardly hear anything, I know he has his son and all, and that he is more busy at the moment. I usually don’t contact him, he’s the one who mostly contacts me. The thing is that I am so scared that he will change his mind again about us. That he doesn’t want it to be us. And perhaps goes back to fooling around with that girl. It’s just devastating to think about. We have been together for 2,5 years, gone through cancer together and been through a lot basically. He says he wants it to be us, and that he wants me, but this sudden change makes me freak out. I am often very much alone, so I have to much time to think at night. It have felt so good the last weeks. Am I overreacting? What should I do? My biggest fear is that he will go back to fooling around with this rebound girl. I don’t think I can survive if he wants to be with her instead.
What should I do? I haven’t heard from him all day. I have heard from him everyday since he said he wanted it to be us. I just can’t stop feeling that there is something wrong, that I have ruined it. I can’t stop crying. I don’t want to lose him again…
I am totally freaking out. It just feels like something has changed. I am so scared. Don’t know what to do? Or what I should think? I really do love this man, I see my future with him. I don’t want to screw this up. Help… How do I make reattract him more?
