leahsfx

Thank you for the response.
I am back from the holiday now and on the last day we had a long and emotional chat. He admits to still loving me and regrets leaving me and is very sorry for what he has done. However, he admitted his situation is difficult as not only has he moved in with this women (1yr lease) he also works with her. I said if he meant what he said about me then he would fight for me and take the shit that comes with ending things with her and left it at that. He has text since with loving messages and has asked to meet up for drinks which I’ve agreed too but fear without a commitment from him he will be getting the best of both worlds. Not sure how to play this one really!? I know I need a commitment from him before any more intimacy but I think he’s too much of a coward to end things with her!

Thanks for the reply!
I am always polite and chirpy no matter what when he picks up our daughter it’s just difficult trying to get things to the next level as I don’t want to come across needy and reading lots of info online it says to never lay your emotions or how you feel out on the table so I don’t know if telling him that is the best thing to do but also feel if I don’t then he’ll slip further away and more into her arms. I’m also concerned it’s not a rebound after all which makes me think I should ignore all advice and tell him how I feel. So difficult knowing what to do! I’m not getting the best impression tbh, it felt like it was going somewhere 2 months ago but now it feels like I’m too late. I don’t know 🙁