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  • in reply to: Empty Life, please help! #19961
    Kitty
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    Well I think, I don’t know for sure, but when she said she didn’t love you anymore, I think she said it to give you a push to move on. I think if you really show her that you’re happy and okay and you can live without her, she will begin to miss you and forgive you. It might take time, but she probably still cares about you. You two had a long relationship and it seemed wonderful. I believe that if you do NC or LC she will start to miss you and come back into your life. Just try to not seem desperate or too available. Show her that you can come out of this strong (even if you have to fake it)! Work out, focus on work or school or whatever and show her the new and improved you!

    I really feel for you because I have had a lot of the same troubles. I feel as though my ex boyfriend was having a hard time forgiving me for trying to kill myself after the breakup because it made him so worried and he thought it was very selfish. But after a while he forgave me and I feel like things are looking up. I’m still trying NC or very LC but it’s hard at times and I totally understand. But if you could also look at my situation and give any advice you have it would be greatly appreciated! 🙂 I hope everything works out for you!

    in reply to: Will I ever in any way get her back? #19957
    Kitty
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    She seems to still care for you if she is logging into your accounts and getting so upset. I feel that if you talk to so many girls 24/7 it’s going to back fire. You shouldn’t be extremely available to her but you shouldn’t make it seem like you have moved on completely if your goal is to get her back. Maybe do NC for a little longer and then when you talk to her again instead of asking how things are going, tell her about things you’ve done, like if you’ve done something different or seen a new movie or something or remind her of things you have done together, but be very subtle! She seems to be taking it hard as well and she might even be doing something similar to what your doing! It would be nice to get an update!

    Also, please reply to my situation as well I would love any advice!

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