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Yeah I have been trusting to do stuff like that with pictures the only issue is that she blocked me on pretty much everything which is also an issue when it comes to contacting her. But yeah I didn’t do anything horrible but I’ve also been fearing that maybe she had been like loosing feelings for me the past few months of our relationship and that maybe at this point she is almost over me you know what I mean?
We broke up for multiple reasons I have had moments when I wasn’t the best boyfriend but nothingness too bad I just put her down sometimes. But the past two months she had recently gotten a position in a club that we were in and she started making less time for me and more for the club and people in the club and that caused a lot of issues.
I’m scared that she is trying to get over me by doing all these things, which by the way she is doing things that she never would have done before she is being different, but I’m afraid that she is going to be over me by the time I contact her.
Well it’s good that she told you he misses you, I doubt he is over you, he may be doing good but 1. it could be an act because like you said he is also prideful and 2. It doesn’t mean he is over you maybe he is just coping better much like you are. I wish I got some sort of sign that my ex is at lease a little upset, every picture I see she is super happy she was out doing karaoke 3 days after the break up I have gotten no hint that she even cares that it happened or if she misses me:( that kinda terrifies me.
Yeah I understand completely I have that same fear. She said she doesn’t want to talk until I can talk to her as a friend so I’m afraid she won’t think that when I try to talk to her
Ok thank you very much that was very helpful. I’m still in the early stage of NC so my mind keeps coming up with scenarios that I don’t want to think about ha. But again thank you and if you ever need anyone to talk to I would love to return the favor.
I did for the first like 5 days of the break up but she ignored me the whole time except once she answered to tell me that we are not getting back together and that she didn’t love me anymore. That’s when I started NC and I’m on day 10
We were together for two years and I know I’m over thinking but I just can’t help but think that the longer I wait the more she will forget about me or the more she will realize that she likes not being with me
But it’s not like she wasn’t free with me she was aloud to do what she wanted why is the fact that she’s not doing it with me make it so much better and her want to do more. Was I so boring to be around? I just don’t get it
Yes you are right I do need to worry about the now and worry about myself. I also am nervous about her not being single for long because she is so amazing and it won’t be long until someone else realizes it like I did. But I’m gonna try to do better to worry about the now to better myself.
@kaila I feel the exact same way. I know I can make myself happy but I know that my ex is what made me happiest. I also blame myself very much, which I understand I should try not to, but I was the one that treated her wrong. She was there for me and improved my life so much and all I cared about was myself. So many people tell me that I will learn from this for the next relationship, but I don’t want to learn lessons to be with someone that I don’t love as much as my ex. Yesterday my friend said something that really scared me. Him and his ex broke up about 6 months ago and he has been with a new girl for a little over a month, last night he looked at me and said he’s not happy and that his standards are too high because of his ex. I’m so scared that I found the best I will ever get and I ruined it.
Yeah it has actually been about a week and a half and I already lost about 8 pounds and I know that isn’t the best way to lose it but it’s a start I’m definetly going to try hard to diet and exercise for the next month I really want her to see a new me when the time comes
I want to lose weight it was something my ex and I tried to do together but never really got into it
Yeah thats true the only thing is that I wanted to go to the gym for 30 days which I know wouldn’t do much but I really want to wow her the next time she sees me. I guess what I’m asking is do you think it would be a good idea to just take a break from that organization, it would mean seeing my friends less but it would probably have a better long term outcome.
Thank you, that definetly made me feel better but when we go back to school I’m just nervous because all of my friends are also her friends and they are all part of an organization which she is an executive member of, this is where I spent most of my time but now I must avoid this organization which leaves me alone and bored back at school. With that and the fact that she seems so happy I’m scared that the NC will be too hard.
