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Thanks NeverGiveUp. I agree, but I’m really good about putting on a happy face and acting like nothing is wrong. Everyone is always commenting about how I’m always smiling and happy when that is the farthest thing from the truth.
It’s been 5 months since we broke up and almost 2 since we’ve seen each other. I know him well enough that I know with him it is out if sight out of mind. I feel like this is my last chance at reconciliation. If it doesn’t work, I don’t know what I’ll do. I’ve been going out with other people, but the more I date, the more I realize that he was my “one.” It will really suck if he’s permanently decided I’m not his.
I think she isn’t over you or she wouldn’t care. I’m going through the same thing and I find it very hard not to reach out to my ex. He’s the one that broke up with me, but like you, one minute I feel great and fine, and the next I’m a wreck and all I want to do is talk to him. I think the bigger point of no contact is to make yourself stronger and get to the point that you don’t care (as much) anymore whether you get back together or not. I think the point is you need to be in a place where you are ok to let them go and walk the I other way and never look back, because without that, you don’t stand a chance (she will always have this power over you if you don’t let go). That’s what I tell myself anyway. Harder to put into practice.
