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Its like a cat… You have to let her come to you… Even though its hard… Try it and see… It might take a little while for her to come out of her shell but just be patient… And yes, NO GIRLS!!! EVEN IF IT LOOKS LIKE SHE IS FLIRTING WITH GUYS… just be cool… Its OK to remove yourself from that situation but it isn’t OK to get angry, say anything to her about it or try and get her back… Just walk away… She probably will try and make you jealous if youre around, walking away sends a clear message that your not thrilled but it Alison doesn’t antagonise the situation or give her the response she’s expecting Either…which is probably lay flipping out… Stay cool…
OK… I have been the girl who has been cheated on… I LOVED my guy so much and was shattered when he did it… I caught him in the act so at least you had the decency to be honest..tick no. 1:)
You have decided glared your love and apologised… Tick no. 2.
The next step is critical… You MUST let her come to you… My ex went overboard trying to convince me how sorry he was etc etc etc etc etc… All it did was push me away because he was trying so hard it made me feel like he was being fake…there is nothing more you can tell her that she doesn’t already know or that can change her mind… In this moment… She is hurt and angry and anything you say is only going to hold 20% weight because she’s not ready to hear it… So wait..and save what you want her to really know for when she IS ready.. Then its not wasted…
I think the best thing now is to nc and let her come to you… Dong initiate anything… On any platform! No Fb, no text, no I’m, twitter none of it. Radio silence.And I agree if you go to this party DO NOT even TALK to any girls if you can help it… Because I guarantee if she gets even a stiff that you are even looking at someone else all of her trust issues will have resurfaced….
Give her space to process… If my ex had have done that I would have taken him back…
Omg I see signs everywhere too!!
She’s an ambo and I swear to god I’ve never seen so many ambulances in my freaking life! I hate it!!! 🙁
Life sucks… Ppl suck… 🙁My ex isn’t showing any either… He’s too busy with his new rebound girl 🙁 which I’m beginning to think might just turn out to be the real thing…I have this terrible feeling that he’s going to get her pregnant… I don’t know why 🙁
She’s angry… What happened??
Her being angry is not really a bad sign. It probably means she still has feelings for you. Read this article to understand these signs.
Also, check out this article on how to get your ex girlfriend back, even if she is angry.
You need to keep any contact you have with her positive and not anything about your break up… Or her new bf… If you do see her do something fun like go to the park or something… Walk dogs anything that just leaves her thinking that was a really fun day… She obviously still feels very strongly about you…
I have had a similar relationship but only over 1.5 years… The difference is I broke up with him then he spent 3 weeks trying to get me back then I agreed then he changed his mind (turns out he met the live of his life who is perfect)… He won’t even talk to me.or think about us… At least she is talking and clearly thinking about you. Don’t make yourself too available… And don’t get into the friend zone by being her advisor.
🙁 I only just saw this… I with I had tour strength to walk away… I’ll miss your support x
Ok this is one I can actually help with!!
I know its hard (and I’m about to post a new thread about not being able to practice what I preach here) but as a female if you totally leave her alone from this min she will be back. How do I know? Because this is exactly what my ex did when I broke up with him and as soon as he wasnt pestering me every 5 mins I had a chance to think, realise what an idiot I had been and miss him… unfortunately for me… he met someone else in the space of 5 mins (4 days from begging me to come back to meeting her and not knowing if it was what he wanted anymore because she is shiny and new)… who is apparently the love of his life (despite us being together for 1.5yrs and about to buy a house together)… so while my story didnt end well you can DEFINITELY turn it around still… just cold turkey off her.. she’ll notice… I promise…
Good luck!
Isn’t part of the point though to leave him wondering what I’m doing…? If he sees me checking in at places, I’m worried he’ll just resent me… I don’t know why I think that I just do..
