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Hey thanks! It’s an old nickname that stuck lol
Yes we have been close since we originally separated in January,
And he admitted that he started to get feelings back for me and he said that scared him as he didn’t want to get hurt again so he went out, got drunk and sleep with anther girl. We were not together and he found it hard to see why I could forgive him.
Are take on taking it slow is that I care, love and adore him. He cares a lot and loves but but is scared to let himself be in love with me.
We are doing everything that we would do in a relationship and he wants it to stay like that and also have the close friendship bond too. So are agreement was we just took each day as it comes and just wait for things to happen naturally when the time was right. He needs to get his feelings of guilt out mainly in his mind but everyday he seems that bit more loving. I said I would never give up on him and he is amazed that I have been through he’s side all this time xHe just said what will be will be. He said this last week he saw how much I really cared for him, he didn’t actually realise!
He said he wishes he could change thins but he can’t go back and undo the past.
He still ‘seeing’ this girl but admitted its a rebound n he just wants a bit of fun.
Guess I just hold back for now and concentrate on myself.
He is definatly showing more feelings towards me. He sat holding me last night for ages, I didn’t want him to let go.Well he just dropped son off on way to work. Asked when he was having him next (was trying to initiate a convo) he said Sunday so I guess the hard part is now waiting to see if he contacts me asi would normally contact him.
Yes the ‘new girl’ thing is odd.
I want to talk to his mum but coz she’s knows what’s going on I kinda feel I have to include her in the no contact and hoping that he may talk to his mum and she can talk to me xHe was messaging her all day, everyday and I’ve noticed since Tuesday he only goes online (was using whattsapp) a couple of times a day. He never used whattsapp til he started messaging her. So I’m not even sure if he is talking to her.
I’m so confused.
I don’t look at him when he collects our son, it’s really hard as I just wna grab him n hug him, but I make sure I’m dressed and my hair is clean and straightened (he always liked me to wear down and I ain’t for a long while) each day is harder than the last xI’m not too sure if he has broke up with her or if he was even ‘with’ her in all honestly!
I feel ok atm just hoping he realises before it’s too late xMakeupjunkie
No I told him that I couldn’t see him until I had dealt With the pain of the breakup
I just sent my son out the door to him.
He appeared shocked and upset but I was strong and didn’t give in but I just want to no what to do when he texts me as I’ve no doubt he will. I want him back desperately but I also want to take the opportunity to prove to him that with the help of my therapy etc I can be a better person in a relationship and it can work a 2nd round when we both work at it x
