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June 17, 2015 at 11:20 am #48499
Dot
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Ok so if my ex boyfriend texts me during the NC period wanting to see me or telling me he has made a mistake, what do I do? And what do I do once the 30 days is up?
Thanks
June 17, 2015 at 1:37 pm #48509
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If he says he thinks he has made a mistake you just tell him “Well come here if you think you’ve made a mistake”. That’s how I’d do it, straight to the point.

If he’s genuine he’ll come, if not you won’t hear from him or he’ll make stupid excuses.
June 17, 2015 at 3:14 pm #48517
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Hi Dot
So he has told you he made a mistake?
June 17, 2015 at 5:00 pm #48519
Dot
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Makeupjunkie
No I told him that I couldn’t see him until I had dealt With the pain of the breakup
I just sent my son out the door to him.
He appeared shocked and upset but I was strong and didn’t give in but I just want to no what to do when he texts me as I’ve no doubt he will. I want him back desperately but I also want to take the opportunity to prove to him that with the help of my therapy etc I can be a better person in a relationship and it can work a 2nd round when we both work at it x
June 17, 2015 at 5:13 pm #48521
makeupjunkie
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Good for you for staying strong! So I take it he broke it off with the girl? Maybe just take some time for you and really think if you want him back..you sound alot better and stronger than you did earlier this week 🙂 Remember take care of you first !
June 17, 2015 at 5:15 pm #48522
makeupjunkie
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What was the reason or reasons for break up?
June 17, 2015 at 5:19 pm #48523
Dot
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I’m not too sure if he has broke up with her or if he was even ‘with’ her in all honestly!
I feel ok atm just hoping he realises before it’s too late x
June 18, 2015 at 12:13 pm #48559
Dot
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He was messaging her all day, everyday and I’ve noticed since Tuesday he only goes online (was using whattsapp) a couple of times a day. He never used whattsapp til he started messaging her. So I’m not even sure if he is talking to her.
I’m so confused.
I don’t look at him when he collects our son, it’s really hard as I just wna grab him n hug him, but I make sure I’m dressed and my hair is clean and straightened (he always liked me to wear down and I ain’t for a long while) each day is harder than the last x
June 18, 2015 at 3:00 pm #48562
makeupjunkie
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Hmm very strange with the so called new girl. My ex has not contacted me at all. Been three wks tomorrow. Hang in there
June 19, 2015 at 2:24 am #48591
Dot
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Well he just dropped son off on way to work. Asked when he was having him next (was trying to initiate a convo) he said Sunday so I guess the hard part is now waiting to see if he contacts me asi would normally contact him.
Yes the ‘new girl’ thing is odd.
I want to talk to his mum but coz she’s knows what’s going on I kinda feel I have to include her in the no contact and hoping that he may talk to his mum and she can talk to me x
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