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@patricia12 yes! I will implement the things you mentioned. Thank you. I will keep you updated.
Hey @patricia12 thank you for the response.
Yes. You’re right. He never abused me but was rude at times. Plus I talked with him about this. He said he will try his best to make me happy and be a better person. I love him but its hard for me to see us together in future. I don’t know why. Maybe I’m scared of marriage and stuff. We are talking normal like before. He said he wont force me for anything.
I’m just keeping it low and waiting for the days to come and make things really clear. What’s your opinion?@amcee omg wow.. I’m so happy for you! I’m sorry I’m a lil late. But I’m happy for you guys. Wish you guys all the luck and have a happy long long long relationship ahead. 😊
Okay!! I understand what you want to say. You are probably right. Don’t hope much, be there for her!! Be strong. And wait patiently. Tomorrow can unfold many secrets!!
wish you all the luck!! You are a strong person. ?Hey @amcee !! You are right!! I have tried so hard to make him understand about everything that you have to choose the person who will be with you no matter what!!
Yea he is sorta thinking that he will sacrifice anything for family but he has started realising things now, like he called me up and every time I asked him about if he is happy with this he was depressed!! And always said he misses me so much and cry too!! But nothing can be done until he stands up!! I tried everything I could in last 1year!! But now im exhausted. Idk what will happen next but not expecting anything now.
Well you said in your thread that the boy has drinking issues? You can take advantage of that. I mean try to show her parents that he isn’t the right person and at the same time you show up somehow but in much better ways than before!! Well behaved, caring about your girl. I know you do, but you need to let her and her parents see that caring. It’s gonna be tough but not impossible! ?hey @amcee !! thank you so much for reading my thread!! well you are right!! i have thought so much about what if he go with his parents in future?
but for a recent update, its over from my side!! i comoleted my NC successfully and he contacted me positively but his family issue was there and he couldnt make his mind so i walked out after ending thungs positively!
i read your story. this girl loves you. trust me she does. or why she would cry for you? she isnt happy i guess with this new boy! you should change your ways of talking if you are rude. you cant notice that but ither person does! so be a good loving person! also is she going to enagage with him really? you should not contact her for a while and make contact once you are ready with your new version!! it will work!!
just focus om what was wrong!
and you are a boy so it wont be that much difficult to make her family understand afterall!! but you really need to change the ways, positively inside out!! people hould notice the difference!! gud luckHey again,
Yes it is a bit difficult to maintain a relationship from a distance. But it totally depends on you guys how you handle it. Take some time you will get to know automatically whether he still loves you or not. But for now.. Try to be happy and improve yourself. Everything will be alright on day. Good luck.
