Boards No Contact Rule NC with him until he first contacts me?

To post a reply login or register

Viewing 4 posts - 1 through 4 (of 4 total)
  • Author
    Posts
  • #67138
    resilienza
    Participant
    • Total Posts: 14

    Hey guys,

    I am on day 28 of NC after one month and a half of texting him and begging him to come back, and he never replied. He said he needed to think (5 weeks after dumping me and disappearing), I went on texting him for another week and then started NC (so stupid from me, but I was emotionally unstable).

    So now it’s two months and two weeks since he disappeared, and it’s a long distance relationship so the only way I had to contact him was trhough social media, but he blocked me on fb Instagram and snapchat, he kept only whatsapp.

    NC is coming to an end, I started with the idea of doing 30 days but I feel that he needs more time to miss me and I need time to heal.

    He recently started viewing my story on Instagram, the only kind of contact that he made with me.

    Do you think I should go on with NC until he texts me? He’s the most stubborn guy I know and I’m scared he will just leave things as they are, even if I secretly hope that after 1 year of being together mean something to him. Now it’s been two months, what are my chances of getting back together?

    #67140
    Anne
    Participant
    • Total Posts: 9

    hey,
    well If there is some love there are always chances. He is noticing the things that is a good sign. You can Do NC for some couple of days more. Be positive. try to make yourself better than ever , everything will fall in place.

    #67142
    resilienza
    Participant
    • Total Posts: 14

    Thanks for your reply, the fact is that I think he thinks that this relationship was too difficult for him, because of the distance and the fact my parents didn’t like him and always stepped into our relationship.

    You’re right, when there’s love there’s a chance but I’m starting to doubt he still loves me after two months.

    #67218
    Anne
    Participant
    • Total Posts: 9

    Hey again,
    Yes it is a bit difficult to maintain a relationship from a distance. But it totally depends on you guys how you handle it. Take some time you will get to know automatically whether he still loves you or not. But for now.. Try to be happy and improve yourself. Everything will be alright on day. Good luck.

Viewing 4 posts - 1 through 4 (of 4 total)
  • You must be logged in to reply to this topic.