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He definitely misses you but I think you should still wait out the full no contact period. If his feelings change in just another 9 days it wasn’t real to begin with
Well the book says not to do that until you’re sure you can trust the other person again. If you haven’t talked about it meaning anything significant then it may not be the situation you want.
Tho seem to make the same mistakes again and again. Liking guys and then discussing that with people you obviously can’t trust. You need to prove change and definitely
Keep going no contact. It’s only
Been a week and a half since the break up. You can do itI’m the same. I’ve been out with other guys but still miss my ex a lot. Unfortunately for me even with no contact he thinks that’s weird to miss someone for two months. Idk
What I can do but you still have a
Shot. Go out with the new guy just for fun. Don’t worry about anything. And keep up full no contact, not even one text, until after a month.You can do it. Even when I found out my dad had cancer and I only wanted to talk to my ex I resisted.
It sounds like you guys did have a good time but he’s probably hesitant about rushing back to
The way things were. You should
Be too. Cause obviously the old
Way didn’t work.Wait until
The seventh day then reach out.
At some point though he needs to express some effort or interestSo you were dating at least 3 months? I believe that is an acceptable amount of time to know if you love someone. Everyone is different. Some know in a month, others it takes six months.
However, the kid thing can be a deal breaker and thats something none of us can tell you decide on. If you really want your own one day, then you’ll have to let her go for good because that will never work and in the end you’d resent her. So just be sure first.
Second, You didn’t really have to send her the email but I’ve some stuff like that in the past and i don’t think its a deal breaker unless you do it multiple times.
It’s a bit unrealistic to expect her to reach out though if you’ve blocked her from EVERYTHING. Thats asking too much because if it were me at that point I would believe you didn’t want to hear from me ever. Why else go to such extremes? Shes in a rebound relationship now so those usually dont last, but if her facebook does bother you I would keep that blocked. For the record, never ask for info about an exes new partner. It’ll make you nuts. And try to avoid looking at their full profiles cause you’ll go into investigation mode.
I think you should unblock her number so that if in time she wants to call or text, you will get it. If it’s months away so be it, but try to wait as long as possible before deciding to reach out again yourself. Throwing feels at people just makes them run. You have to just make them comfortable and feel like you don’t want anything more than that.I think you need to leave her be for a no contact period. give her the month she originally wanted. people flip flop in their feelings right after a break up so even she may not be certain of her true feelings. Give it time. and only forward an email during the month if it is important- like life or death/ financial, etc.
