Forum Replies Created
-
Posts
-
i guess there is no win win in this type of situation i just dont feel as much for him as i did before the breakup i feel like i won’t go the hassle of all of this again if put in the same situation
hi 5 years is a long time and as of what I have read you have always been a constant to her side so yeah I suggest you go full NC for 3 months no breaking it from your side. I promise by 3 months after my breakup I can genuinely say that I am feeling better about the the loss of our relationship. If she ever contacted you say that you wanted some space and is not ready to converse with her yet take all the time that you need and just focus on yourself you need to see that exam not as a way for you to impress her or to get back together but JUST FOR YOU. Because you wanted to fulfill it so that when you get back together you will have something besides your relationship that is purely yours.
hi yes we still are together but a lot have changed mainly on my part I continue to have a feeling that I’ll be fine if we break up anyday. I guess a bit apathetic.
Yes when we talked I realized that the breakup wasn’t about me it was about him and nothing I will do will make him realize that our relationship deserve another chance but I am lucky to have initiate NC for 4 months until he contacted me because his behaviour after the breakup is really hurtful and in this 4 months I even liked the idea of us not getting back together.
Hello me too I think nc works it i went nc for almost 4 months i was dumped. and now he contacted saying sorry then the next day he also did asking me silly questions i might add that he saw m a handful times but I ignored him. I dont know really if we will get back together but the time i went nc made me realize that either way it’s fine.
He contacted me again it was a nice talk dunno bout the rest he asked if i have suitors? I jokingly answered I can’t count it by hand. All in all it was a positive convo.
I know you dont check this board as often buy he talked to me yesterday saying sorry and all saying he feels guilty etc etc he asked if we can still see each other? and I answered no.
Hello I am extremely sad I have read from a post that my ex is still not over his crush this crush happened before our relationship so does this mean our relationship is nothing at all? I cried so hard before we started going out I asked him if he was over this girl and he said yes so we started dating this girl was never an issue between us during our relationship.
Hello his close friend (girl) who I talk to sometimes said that my ex is being dramatic on their gc about us she offered to tell me the whole thing but I declined and told that “I don’t want to hurt myself anymore by checking up with his actions and if his depression is coming back again I know that he can handle it and we should believe in him.”
Can’t say I wasn’t intrigued but second hand information can do more harm than good I want it to come from his mouth. Did you think I did the right thing.
hiya how are you? I am doing fine 😊
Saw him a few times the month of Feb never acknowledge him in anyway I acted normal. Over the course of Feb he posted things that begs for my attention and playing victim didn’t succumb and literally roled my eyes if he want to talk then he can reach out not post things on social media what a coward.
My personal healing is going well I cook more often and pamper myself.
Hi I know tnis might seem trivial again but my ex removed his profile pic and removed his active now status hmmmm seems fishy
You are very much welcome. I would also like to thank you especially in times where I can’t calm down and think straight I always ask for your advice.
You said you know this guy right I know it is bad to compare yourself to others but you are much better than him. From everyhting that you have said it seems like you two have a very healthy relationship we may not know the details about their relationship but you have set a standard for her if this new item can’t beat that he will be most likely gone in just months.
I know it seems counter intuitive but get over her man.
