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  • #38969
    KD1988
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    Give it a week for her to respond to your facebook message then send the letter

    #39139
    Jared
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    @KD1988 Yep that is my plan. Im gonna drop off the letter to her mom on saturday while she is working unless she contacts me beforehand. Slowly im getting better with her being gone. Im scared tho that Murphy’s law will set in as soon as i feel better or i start to like this girl on my date tmrw =(

    #39141
    KD1988
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    It’s a good plan. Just stick with it. And accept it is what it is. Easy for someone to say that though I know. Just continue on with your life for now, don’t put it on hold, enjoy your date etc etc, you never know what is around the corner 🙂

    #39186
    Jared
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    I know @KD1988. You have been such a big help to me. To be honest tho, all i want is my ex to be standing around the corner. Ive already been around the block many times. I know what address to stop at if you get my drift. I still miss her everyday. Just seeing a pic of her anywhere makes my heart stop. How can something have so much power over me lol I not that kind of person. Ive always been a confident man knowing what i want in life. This date tmrw is with a really pretty girl, and i hope to hit it off but down deep all i feel is guilt. Makes me sick….

    #39223
    Jared
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    Am i moving to fast with this new girl?

    #39224
    KD1988
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    We all get that feeling. I find when I start to feel like that I have to do something to distract myself! Stops me thinking.

    You are only going on a date with this girl, don’t put pressure on yourself

    #39225
    Jared
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    Okay cool. Yea she seems to be a pretty cool person. I hope it goes well tmrw. Gotta just be myself like i usually am. Always worked for me in the past.

    #39226
    KD1988
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    Yeah that’s all you can do. I wouldn’t think about it too much. Just have fun and take it for what it is but enjoy it

    #39229
    Jared
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    Thanks @KD1988 like always. I tell ya how it goes on thursday.

    Also i have such a strong feeling that when my ex gets the letter she wont read it or just trash it =/ The way she has been since the break, it worries me. Its like i dont know who she is anymore. I also hope her mom gives it to her too if i hand it to her. Maybe i will put it in a box like a package and say its for her.

    #39231
    KD1988
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    Does she live with her mum? If so, I would either send it in post, or drop it through the letter box. But I would suggest mailing it to her. When I sent my letter, I drove to my exes to put it through his door but I couldn’t do it so I mailed it instead. Much better idea!

    #39235
    Jared
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    Hmm yea it is. I might do that. I would put it in a package and stuff and mail it or give it to her mom and say its some of her stuff if you can give it to her when she gets home. I wont tell her its a letter or anything. Just some of her stuff she left at my place.

    #39611
    Jared
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    @KD1988 Date went pretty well. Hopefully set up a following date. Got most of what u get out of a first date. Not sure if its to soon tho =/ she was a great girl, just didnt get the same spark with my ex. What do u think?

    #39613
    KD1988
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    Only you can decide that lol. Just take it as it is and see what happens!

    #39627
    Jared
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    Oh i know lol I hope she enjoyed herself last night. Its nice to be with someone again i have to say. Still weird being single tho =/

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